I lost confidence since my husband told me he was having an affair because of sexual attraction

But I was heartbroken because of that “instinctive thing”. My husband after adulterydiscovered by his wife, immediately confessed that he was having an affair because he couldn’t resist the woman’s sexual attraction.

We’ve been together for so many years now, that I can feel every little abnormal change in him. I was suspicious, so I secretly checked my husband’s phone. It was so shocking when I rummaged through it that many intense emails were exchanged between my husband and a strange woman.

I questioned my husband, he knew he couldn’t lie, so he knelt down and cried and begged for my forgiveness. He said “please don’t destroy the family, me and her are not love, it’s just a man’s instinct that makes me irresistible…”.

I forced my husband to say everything specifically, he said it was all just sex, the two of them had strong reactions to each other in it, but he didn’t love her, he just loved his wife.

My husband’s confession, instead of comforting me, hurt me like hell. My sex life hasn’t been good for a long time, I feel bad about my body and he knows it too. I lost my job so I’ve been at home for a few months, I think I’ve lost interest in a lot of things, including sex.

But I was angry because instead of helping me, my husband went out to sleep with another woman. It pains me to hear my husband say how attractive he finds other women are, while we have been together for more than 10 years, my body after two births is no longer what I want it to be, Fat is everywhere, his skin is wrinkled, maybe he doesn’t want to touch it anymore.

Now that I have lost my sense of security, I have low self-esteem and self-doubt. My husband still apologized to his wife and said he wanted to improve the relationship between husband and wife to make things better, but he didn’t know that the last bit of confidence in me was destroyed by him.

I don’t believe he will love me wholeheartedly, I don’t believe in myself. I know what to do with this? What will our marriage be like when this betrayal of yours has lost too much faith in me. Will I still be happy?

According to Dan Tri

Husband has an affair: The heart forgives, the mind still burns with jealousy

For the sake of my children, I forgive my husband’s adultery. But every time I get close, I loathe him.

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