His mother told me “it’s still not worth adding 200 gold trees”, 1 year later I’m shocked

Quan is an employee at a partner company, we know each other in a common cooperation. I am the manager of the company on this side, and Quan is just an ordinary member of the project team on the other side. Our salary, capacity and position are different, but somehow I find Quan’s gentle and somewhat shy demeanor.

Then we became closer and fell in love all the time. Having the same expertise, I help Quan a lot in his work. Since then, he was praised and respected by his boss, becoming a candidate for the position of deputy manager. Quan often said that without me, he wouldn’t be where he is today. He wants to marry me and treat me well for the rest of his life. Listening to him confess, I’m glad that the efforts and feelings I put in are worth it.

Then we became closer and fell in love all the time. (Illustration)

However, when I came back to the Quan family, facing his mother’s unwelcome eyes, I knew that my love life would not be smooth. Although I had prepared thoughtful gifts, and also went to the kitchen to show off my cooking skills to score points with his mother, she was still not satisfied.

After eating, drinking water in the living room, he looked straight at me and said a sentence that I will remember for the rest of my life:

– I have heard Quan talk about you, and know that you are a good daughter. But what Quan has achieved now is due to his own efforts. Don’t think that it’s thanks to you that it got where it is today.

As for the issue of marriage, please be frank. With your beauty and figure, two hundred more gold trees are not worthy to be my bride. My uncle’s men are already talented and do not need to take a wife to lead them.

Everyone in my family is handsome and beautiful. The daughter-in-law that you want to be beautiful is a prerequisite, to be skillful, to know how to take care of the family, to please adults, to give birth to children and to be a solid rear for her husband to build a career. Just saying that is enough to understand that I am not suitable for your family, right? Smart people don’t think much need to be said.

I don’t claim to be smart, but I certainly have self-respect. As Quan’s mother said so, I don’t think she respects her son at all. Really respecting her son, she wouldn’t be so overbearing with his girlfriend. And Quan made me very disappointed. He was only silent, not daring to strongly protect his girlfriend against his mother’s insult.

After that, although Quan apologized, promised and asked me to give him more time to convince his mother, I still firmly refused. About half a year later, Quan got married. Friends describe his wife, indeed Quan got the wife exactly what his mother asked for. I went to Quan’s Facebook, saw him posting passionate love statuses with his wife, but smiled faintly thinking that maybe Quan forgot about me.

Unemployed with no income, Quan and his wife argued constantly. (Illustration)

Another half year has passed, now I have a new boyfriend. Of course, drawing on painful experiences from the past, this time I chose a tough, independent and talented boyfriend commensurate with me. In the midst of my happiness, Quan’s mother suddenly came to see me, making me extremely surprised.

– Please, please save Quan, help me, I’m so miserable. Why is everything so bad…

I found out that since leaving I had no one to advise me professionally, no one to help me with difficult problems, no one to give me good solutions, since then Quan has continuously made mistakes. In the work. Most recently, Quan was fired for a serious error.

Unemployed with no income, Quan and his wife argued constantly. Finally, she discovered that her husband was just a weak coward, so she stripped everything and left. Quan lost all spirit, immersed in alcohol day after day.

That’s why Quan’s mother came to see me, hoping I could turn him back to the person he was before. It’s ridiculous, isn’t it? It’s only been a year and he’s forgotten everything he’s ever said. I didn’t say it again, just flatly refused. However, he still came to see me two more times before officially giving up. It’s true that life can’t be predicted, right?