Entering the late afternoon, many couples tend to switch to separate beds. Maybe without arguing or disagreeing, they still decide to sleep separately to ensure each other’s sleep or give each other a comfortable living space.
So are these couples still in need of closeness? Are they in need of husband and wife story has decreased, so sleeping together or sleeping separately is no longer important?
A recent interview on Sohu (China) will help readers answer the question: After the age of 50, do cohabiting couples still need marriage?
Ms. Wen (56 years old): It’s okay if a husband and wife don’t have one
“I haven’t slept with my husband for 10 years. At first it was because I couldn’t stand his snoring, but later I got used to sleeping separately, so I slept so much better!
Outsiders looking in will see that we are still a happy couple, but when we go home, we can each live in a room to enjoy our own lives. Whenever we need something, we talk to each other. I see that being together at this age, there is not much to say.
Regarding sex, it’s not wrong to say that I don’t need it anymore. I am a normal woman, my needs are there, but due to sleeping alone for a long time, it has faded a lot. I think it’s okay to have sex or not, I don’t really care.”
Ms. Vuong (53 years old): Saying there is no need is lying
“Since I turned 50 years old, my husband is no longer interested in me. He often says very straightforward things like calling me fat, calling me old. He doesn’t seem to notice, but I feel extremely sad. .
When I was young, I only weighed 40 kg, now I have given him 3 children to gain 70 kg like this. But my husband is still cold to me. My need for sex is not a lie, but it has been neglected by my husband for a long time.”
Mr. Ton (59 years old): The relationship between husband and wife is still very good
Since our wedding day, my wife and I have agreed that no matter how busy we are, we should spend half an hour every day talking, I think this is a good habit. Even if you have any grievances or complaints that day, you should say it, rather than keep it in your heart.
Currently, my wife and I only have sex 2-3 times a week. I think this frequency is just right, improving the couple’s love while still having time to rest.
Men after 50 are no longer as strong as when they were young, the demand is less. I think it’s best for couples to spend time talking and taking care of each other so they don’t feel lonely.”
at Blogtuan.info – Source: Soha.vn – Read the original article here
