Husband harshly criticized his wife for not knowing how to take care of children and the ending
Couple couple If you want lasting happiness, you need to build trust. When you trust each other, everything is smooth and easy. Not only about emotions, but also about finances, internal and external relations, raising children. On the other hand, when there is a lack of trust in each other, so many petty conflicts will easily flare up into a poisonous fire relationship. The story of husband and wife V. below is an example.
Husband harshly criticized his wife for not taking care of children and regrets in the middle of the night after just one call
V. came to this man voluntarily and because love, but her family expressed disapproval. Because the man had passed a life of wife, even at that time he reached the age of 40, he also had an older daughter who was studying in high school. After a period of research and love, V. noticed him. thinking is still quite young, not as old as age. Besides, because of his form, he looks like a man in his 30s.
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When she married this man, she foresaw the risks she had to face. In particular, the issue of children. When they first got married, V. had to become the mother of a high school girl. At first, there were a few things that didn’t get along very well. But V.’s heart is self-aware that this is a long process that cannot be harmonized in a day or two. Besides, the stepdaughter of her husband V. personality, likes to live independently. Sometimes, there are things that V. wants to help his children but can’t.
After getting married for about 6 months, V. became pregnant. She focuses on taking care of her pregnancy and nurturing her family. Sometimes, V. forgets to care about her husband’s stepdaughter, so he also blames him. But, in his heart, V. considers the other girl as his own child.
The baby in V.’s belly was born smoothly and safely. V. himself faced a lot of responsibilities and pressure. Both taking care of the baby, and taking care of her husband’s stepdaughter preparing for the university entrance exam. She is busy all day from morning to night. Although only 28 years old, but V. shows all worries on his face.
Once, V.’s stepdaughter went to Hanoi to study. Her husband told his wife to put some food in the bag for the children, but V. left it in the refrigerator. Because at that time, she was busy taking the child to her grandmother. In the evening, V.’s husband discovered his wife’s shortcomings, so he scolded her severely. He even brought up the story of common children – stepchildren to say: “You also have to cherish it like your own. Do you think I’ve treated you badly?”
Then the man entered the bedroom, making V. feel very sad. But soon, V. received a message from her husband’s stepdaughter. The girl went to Hanoi and had a fever. Feeling so worried, V. hurriedly took the bus to Hanoi on the last trip of the day. Fortunately, when V. got there, bought medicine and food for his daughter to drink, everything was better. In the middle of the night, not seeing his wife at home, V.’s husband called her and found out the truth. He feels regret for not trusting his wife.
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Why should a marriage be built on a foundation of mutual trust and understanding?
When we trust the other person, we calmly face everything no matter how negative it is. This person will always have the opportunity to explain, the other person to listen, the two sides to exchange and communicate to really remove the knot of the problem. After all, they can still maintain a relationship based on trust.
If there is no trust in each other, we always live in doubt. At the same time, it is difficult for each person to view the problem objectively. This can easily lead to disagreements and quarrels. When it comes to solving it, it is extremely difficult. Therefore, it is important in a marriage that we always have to be restrained, always trust and give the other person a chance to explain. Surely many contradictions and misunderstandings will be resolved.
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