Before the age of 6, if parents do not set rules, children’s character will be difficult to correct

Setting rules from a young age will help train and shape the child’s character later on.

From 3 to 6 years old is an important period to form a child’s personality. If some personalities are allowed to form at this point without parental correction, trying to correct a child’s behavior can become difficult later on.

There are some children who are very rebellious, when eating, they often scream, order their parents, and even stir up food, making other people very disgruntled. Or as in some cases, when children want something but their parents do not respond, they immediately lie on the ground and get angry. Because they do not want to affect everyone, partly because of shame, some parents have to comply with the will of their children.

In fact, situations like these are very common. Especially in families where parents do not have much time to take care of their children due to busy work, they leave their children to the elderly in the house to look after them.

All these things will form a bad character for the child, if the parents do not correct it, the child will become more and more stubborn.

Why should parents set rules for their children?

There is a mother who often shares her family’s life online. Many netizens after watching the video often can’t help but sigh “If only my children could be so obedient in the future, how good would it be.”

In the video, this mother’s daughter is very obedient, never making a fuss at home. The little girl is not only very obedient to her mother at home, but also appears to be reasonable in public.

At the request of many netizens, this mother shared some of her parenting experiences. She said that the reason her daughter was so obedient was because she had set some rules when she was young.

For example, if her daughter violates the rules, she will be punished such as not eating candy, not watching cartoons. At first, the girl refused to cooperate, but then gradually changed and followed the rules set by her mother.

As children get older, discipline becomes more difficult

If talking about the most difficult period to manage children, it is probably when the child is in the teenage years.

This is the stage when children have a sense of independence, irritable and impulsive personality, if their parents scold them, they can run away from home. Parents feel powerless to want to educate their children at this stage.

The period from 3 to 6 years old is the best time to discipline and teach children. This is a period when children often do not have the concept of right and wrong, so it is very easy to correct. However, how personality is formed depends on each parent’s upbringing. Discipline at this time will make the child more and more obedient.

In addition to forming a good character for children, it also helps a lot in learning and later life.

To set rules for children, parents should pay attention to a few things

– Do not force children

Disciplining children is not actually forcing children to do things they don’t like, but applying appropriate methods so that children understand what they should and shouldn’t do.

As parents, we shouldn’t education children with compulsive attitudes. That not only arouses the child’s rebelliousness, but also makes them easy to form cowardice.

Therefore, parents try to communicate with their children more, never think that children do not understand anything. Every child has his own thoughts, what parents should do is let the child understand his teachings.

Let children bear the consequences of making mistakes

The reason many children make mistakes is that they have not yet suffered the consequences of their wrongdoings.

For example, an aggressive, stubborn child scratches an expensive car, causing the parents to pay a large amount of compensation. This is why parents don’t let their children experience the consequences of making mistakes.

Therefore, when children make mistakes for something, parents should not take it lightly, but let them try to bear the consequences of their own actions, so that next time they will avoid making the same mistake. Of course, this does not mean hitting the child, but punishing him in some way so that he has to remember this lesson.

– The set rules must be strictly enforced

Regardless of the family, setting rules is essential. Only by establishing rules in the family, will children be obedient and strictly follow them to help them avoid making unnecessary mistakes.

Parents do not need to set complicated rules, but just need to establish a few simple rules such as not making noise in public places, do not arbitrarily take other people’s toys, do not waste food …

After making rules, parents and children should strictly follow them.