The life story of a woman who hires people to fake weddings and adopts hundreds of abandoned children
She was once considered ‘crazy’ when she suddenly adopted nearly 100 children, considering them as her own children, but despite the buzz of ticks, she patiently performed volunteer work, dedicated to the needy. child a warm, sweet “House of Roses” in the bustling and bustling Saigon city. My name is Giap Thi Song Huong.
Empty hands adopt hundreds of abandoned children
Born into a poor family in Bac Giang, at the age of 17, she was independent and moved to Saigon to earn a living by picking up bottles or working as an hourly maid. During that time, she fell in love with babies and built a home like today. “In the first half of the year, he “picked up” a baby girl, and after half a year, he met another girl at the hospital.“- Ms. Huong said. Just like that, Ms. Huong continued to adopt dozens of other children, from newborn babies to 13-14 year olds.
Ms. Huong has been adopting since she was poor.
Seeing that her daughter was not worried about finding a husband to have children, she went to work without pay for outsiders, her family also had doubts and vehemently opposed:My family is worried that my husband and children don’t have it yet, if I adopt it, I won’t have a future, I’m afraid that my relatives outside the North won’t know that I will think I’m spoiled, I’m crazy about having children out of wedlock.“, shared Huong.
Then firmly believe that if she does good things, God will also have mercy, she tries her best, not only does the old jobs but also picks up pickles and brings them to the street to sell to take care of. for the children.
Also in the situation of being under pressure to earn money to raise children, the girl who picked up plastic bottles and cardboard to make a living has collected little capital, so she boldly started a hotel and real estate business. Luck came to that mother when a relatively good job helped her have an economic turn to adopt a large number of abandoned children.
Gradually, the Rose Shelter became more and more crowded, and she became the mother of many younger children.
“For a long time I have no intention of getting married or having children, all my love for abandoned children is my children now. Sometimes I feel very sorry for not having a child of my own. But in that pity, I also feel happy because the children I am currently raising are very obedient and filial to Huong’s mother.“, she explained to VOV Traffic.
Of course, when looking at these children, in her heart she still longs to have a biological child, to give birth by herself, to perform the motherhood. After many hard times of artificial insemination, it was not until the 10th time that she became pregnant. But only 1 month later, when she went to have another ultrasound, she was informed by the doctor that the fetus was outside the uterus and could not be kept.
Since that painful loss of a child, Huong gave up her desire to give birth, devoted all her time and love to orphans and orphans. Merit is not equal to nursing, after more than 30 years, she also received the sweet fruit when she witnessed many of the children she raised grew up and lived abroad. Others also grow up, have their own lives.
Don’t get married to take better care of your children
Knowing that her volunteer work would be difficult to take care of her own home, she did not get married. When she was more than 30 years old, her family forced her to get married in order to keep the family in peace. Her mother also exerts pressure by… begging on the street.
“I’m in the hotel business, and my mother wears a torn hat and sticks to the street to beg, causing me a lot of pressure. Many nights of thinking, the word Hieu is always at the forefront. My parents have raised me for hundreds of years, but I still can’t pay filial piety, now I only have one wish of my parents, I can’t do it“, Huong said.
To placate her mother, she hires a man to make a fake wedding. Because she is the youngest daughter and her brother’s family has a wedding restaurant in Bien Hoa, Ms. Huong’s wedding was held in a very grand manner, with hundreds of tables and gold rings.
But on the wedding night, after receiving the amount of VND 50 million, the “groom” immediately took the money out of the house. During the following year, every time she went to visit her family, she had to call this person to come with her, each time costing up to 5 million VND. Later, when the family saw that her son-in-law did not return to visit her grandmother’s house, she had to face too many interrogations and was too tired to confess to her family.
Ms. Song Huong once made a fake wedding to satisfy her parents. Photo: Law and readers.
Currently, Ms. Huong also insists that she does not want to get married. “Having a family of my own, getting married, I have to complete the housework with my husband’s family and my children. I can’t hold many things. I chose a long road to walk and do well so I decided this“.
Despite spending a lot of effort to take care of her children, Huong still agonizes over the hope that the children can return to her biological family, because she believes that:I am a wharf still waiting for people to cross the river. Waiting for the children’s parents and grandparents to come and find them. After all, it is a blood relationship, very sacred flesh and blood“, Ms. Huong thoughtfully said on the Law and readers.
The more I think about it, the more I admire this “modern-day Au Co”, since the first time she helped abandoned children, this mother had nothing in her hands, no money, and no relatives to support. based on. That way, you don’t have to wait until you are rich and have a lot of money to be able to do charity, start from your existing ability and let your heart motivate.
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