If the family violates these 3 taboos, beware of disaster

It can take a year, a decade, or more for a family to thrive, but it can fall apart overnight.

Buddhists talk about karma, and the breakdown of a family is often caused by these three causal factors.

1. If children are unfilial, their blessings will be harmed

The Book of Basics says: “A wise person lives in the world, honors his parents, and is always happy”.

The wise people in the world know how to honor their parents and make them happy.

Parents are the first blessed field in life, whatever seed we sow in this blessed field, we will reap the fruit. When you provide for your parents, you sow the seeds of wealth; when you love and obey your parents, your children will honor you in the future.

On the contrary, if you sow evil, the house will not be at peace.

According to Buddhist scriptures, honoring one’s parents is equivalent to making offerings to the Buddha. To practice filial piety is to plant blessings that are greater than those of heaven, to worship Buddha.

2. Discord between husband and wife, broken family

The ancients said: If you practice for ten years, you can cross the land with the boat, and if you practice for a hundred years, you can sleep together.

In this world, every couple who can become husband and wife is a blessing from their previous lives. Fate is not easy to come by, nor is it easy to be together in this life, so husband and wife should cherish this predestined relationship, the family flourishes when the husband and wife get along.

Husband and wife are the most important foundation of a family. If husband and wife are in harmony and respect each other, then the family will be peaceful.

On the contrary, if husband and wife quarrel all day, the family will never have a peaceful day. Many problems in the family are often caused by discord between husband and wife.

According to the Book of Translation, male is yang, female is yin. When yin and yang harmonize, everything prospers; if not, everything declines. Husband and wife are opposites, parents above and children below.

Once upon a time, a businessman took his wife to the temple to pray for good fortune.

He asked the master: “Master, this is my wife, do you consider her a good wife?”

Master smiled and replied, “Women all over the world are prosperous, the key is whether you are prosperous or not!”

The businessman was very confused and asked: “Why?”

The Master replied, “If you want your wife to be well-off, consider her a blessing in this world! First, you must bless her, when she is happy, your husband will prosper, and second, you must bless her to make her feel good. happy after marriage The third thing is to give her wealth, willing to spend money for her and pay her the fourth thing is to talk more about her in front of family and your friends”.

The woman is the most important feng shui in the family, the wife decides the happiness of a family.

If the man is the breadwinner of the family, then the wife is the anchor of the family, and the key to family happiness lies in the wife’s hands.

Warren Buffett once said: The most important investment in my life is not the stock, but the kind of person I choose to spend the rest of my life with.

Life’s road is still messy, someone can walk with you through the ups and downs, build a home together, what’s more precious than this kindness?

3. Clicking on descendants will bring disaster

It means that the children and grandchildren have their own luck, the elderly do not have to worry too much.

There are many families today, since childhood, have given their children delicious food and pearls, pampered them, and are not afraid to let their children suffer a bit of hardship and guilt. As a result, when growing up, the child disobeys his parents, has no self-control, even suffers from all kinds of bad habits, losing the family order.

Such phenomenon is common today. When a child comes to this world, he is not able to accumulate merit, but he has already consumed it.

If the descendants are talented, there is no need to leave money for them, but too much money will kill the fighting spirit of the descendants, if the descendants are lazy and playful, leaving money will only increase laziness.

Children who grow up suffering are more grateful than spoiled children. There is an old saying: “Unfortunate darling, difficult to succeed”.

If you love a child, let him learn to endure hardship, and if you love a child, let him know how to be grateful.

A virtuous and happy wife, a kind and filial mother. Husband and wife are of the same heart, loess can be turned into gold.

Mencius said, “The origin of the world is in the state, the origin of the state is at home, and the origin of the family is in the body.”

Everyone works hard to create a harmonious family, all happiness, no longer difficult to have a happy family, everything is as it is.