Angry at being unfairly blamed for being selfish in bed, just happy alone

Once, my wife confided and blamed that in bed, I did not have a win-win spirit. So unhappy, I find myself not selfish and irresponsible to my wife…

Ng. Tuyen (HCMC)

Sex is about giving and taking, exactly… the more you give, the more you get. The West calls this win – win (both sides win) and bluntly interprets it as “less cake, more biscuits”.

That said, husband and wife for hundreds of years, few people have the heart to carry a small scale on the bed. Therefore, for a wife to bring the story of small cakes – biscuits to the machine, there is a high probability that the husband has a real story. If you are not lazy, you will not be progressive, you will be less happy, “worry before your wife’s worries, happy after your partner’s joy”.

However, it is also necessary to linger to see if there is any hidden love behind. In fact, many wives calculate interest and calculate interest not because of any loss, but honestly to justify laziness, laziness, neglect of husbands or even swapping concepts for apathy.

A husband who brings out the story of wasting his energy with a cool sitting position eating his wife’s golden bowl is sometimes to … cure shyness before complaining about his technique – tactics or his sense of responsibility.

Like I said, if it’s not the type of squeezing out the water, everything must be too much to make women and girls bring their work to pamper their husbands and bring pleasure to “measure jars of fish sauce, count jars of melons”. Therefore, your job is that after receiving the letter, it is necessary to review the internal situation. The good promoted, the bad modified.

The truth is that most of the men are not incompetent, heartless, but sometimes the so-called “unselfish, unpatriarchal, full of responsibility” in his way of thinking may not be at all similar to his way of thinking. grandma.

Win – Win according to the “human perspective” and the “aesthetic” of women can be much deeper and more mysterious than the way you think.