Recently, Sohu site reported, an 8-year-old girl was brought to Shenzhen Children’s Hospital (China) in a coma. The girl’s parents said that the child ate a bag of soaked chicken feet, then appeared dizzy, constantly vomiting, the family rushed to the hospital.
The doctor tried his best but still could not save the girl. However, the emergency doctor asked: What was the cause of the child’s death? Is it really food poisoning? If it is said that children are poisoned by eating pickled chicken feet, why do parents also eat chicken feet?
To find out the real cause, the family requested an autopsy. The autopsy report showed that the baby’s death had nothing to do with the pickled chicken feet, but the damage to the skull, which was caused by the impact of external forces.
This result made the girl’s parents bewildered. Because the child never got into a fight or a fight with anyone, there were also no obvious falls. So what kind of external force could hurt a child like that? Where does intracranial damage come from?
Aggressive parents can cause severe emotional and physical harm to their children. (Illustration)
After talking with the girl’s family, the doctors found the cause. As it turned out, not long ago, the mother found out that the child’s homework was wrong, so she got angry and slapped her son on the back of the head very hard. Unexpectedly, it was that slap that took the child’s life and broke the family’s happiness.
The mother does not know that the back of the child’s head is the spot that should not be hit. Because the back of the brain is where the respiratory center is located, which is also the medulla oblongata. If hit, it causes the respiratory center to vibrate, which can cause some complications of severe, potentially fatal respiratory failure.
If parents could control their emotions, if parents could be more knowledgeable about certain medical documents, such a tragedy could have been avoided. However, all things happen without the word “if”. After this tragedy, only regrets and profound lessons of vigilance remained.
No matter how angry parents are, they cannot hit these 5 parts of the child:
Young children are immature, parents, no matter how angry they are, avoid hitting their children. (Illustration)
Parents absolutely should not hit the child’s head because the child can be seriously injured. The blows to the head of the child can lead to concussion, skull fracture, brain contusion, bleeding, brain hematoma… In more dangerous cases, it can lead to traumatic brain injury and death.
When a child shows signs of fussiness, vomiting, headache, convulsions, coma, bleeding ears or nose, weak limbs… adults need to take the child to the emergency room immediately. Avoid thinking that the child is abusive and ignores it.
Many parents think “it’s okay to spank your butt a few times” is completely wrong. (Illustration)
Parents may think that hitting the bottom only causes pain, but does not pose any danger to the baby. However, that was a very serious mistake.
Some parents, when spanking their child’s bottom, often leave the baby on his or her stomach on a bed, mat, or couch. Lying on your stomach can cause hard materials underneath to damage the testicles, causing testicular hematoma in boys.
In addition, the use of belts and hard bands to hit the bottom of the child’s buttocks can cause hematoma in this area, obstructing blood circulation, and may even lead to gangrene.
The chest is the center of the bones and the respiratory system. When hitting the chest, the child can have respiratory failure, broken bones, most seriously, lead to death.
Hitting a child’s stomach can cause damage to internal organs such as the intestines, liver, and spleen. If you don’t take the child to the emergency room in time and let the serious internal bleeding happen, it will endanger the child’s life.
The violent behavior of parents does not have the effect of educating children. (Illustration)
Many parents have a habit of pinching their ears when their child is bad or doing something wrong. However, twisting and twisting the child’s ear causes nerve damage in the ear or can cause the child to faint on the spot.
Using spanking is never an effective educational measure, helping children to be as obedient as parents expect. Beating children can have a psychological effect, even making them more taciturn and stubborn. Some children will develop a mentality of loss of confidence, fear and isolation.
The long-term consequence of spanking is that children grow up to be more inclined to use force to solve life’s problems. Therefore, instead of using spanking, parents need to find more reasonable educational methods to teach their children.
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