Revealing remarkable psychological changes of parents

How old are you? Are you confident that over time you understand your parents? Let’s “catch the pulse” of the parents’ psychological changes to choose the right way to care.

Fear of loneliness

Most parents who are middle-aged, retired or no longer able to work easily fall into a state of fear of loneliness, fear of abandonment. This mentality largely stems from the difference in thinking and lifestyle between the two generations: When children are at the stage of enthusiasm, “running” with future plans, and parents begin to step in. “late afternoon”, likes to live slowly and wants everything to be at peace.

Parents always want their children to listen and share every day.

Once entering the period of fear of loneliness, fear of abandonment, even a few unsophisticated words or attitudes from children can greatly affect the psychology of parents. Someone said that sometimes the word “Hieu” means listening, sharing and caring for parents. Instead of a superficial or unpleasant attitude, listen and skillfully interweave words of encouragement so that parents always feel the care of their children.

Feeling helpless, fear is a burden

Surely many parents who are about to retire or are not working have more than once thought of themselves as a “burden” of their children. Because, as they age, their health declines, thinking a lot every day will make them feel like they’ve “eaten without sitting”.

In order for parents not to fall into this feeling of helplessness and negative thinking, besides regularly asking and sharing your daily stories, why don’t you take the initiative to bring new experiences to your parents? ?

Change the atmosphere with a picnic, a “strange” weekend meal or “pave the way” to bring parents into modern 4.0 experiences such as paying electricity and water bills, scanning VNPAY-QR codes when shopping at supermarkets, shops…

VNPAY wallet opens many modern technology experiences for all ages.

Sharing from Khanh Linh (27 years old, Hanoi) when her parents retire: “Every month, when I give my parents a few dong of gifts and cakes, I have to think of a reasonable reason because I am afraid that the elderly will be proud. From the day I opened a member wallet on VNPAY Wallet, being able to actively spend, I was relieved.” Linh said that at first she was also afraid that her parents were not familiar with technology, but a few times when instructing me to pay electricity and water bills, and to pay supermarket bills, I realized that the tools were still very sharp.

Join “Open family wallet – Receive 250,000 VND gift” from now until May 31.

It is known that from now until May 31, when registering for Family Wallet on VNPAY Wallet app, the whole family will be given a combo voucher of VND 250,000, from which parents can enjoy the experience of booking hotel rooms, booking air tickets. flights, train tickets, VNPAY-QR shopping payments… quickly and easily right on the VNPAY e-wallet application.

Because “Family is the only thing that exists”, take the time to care, listen and enjoy the moments with your parents while you can.

Steps to participate in the program “Open family wallet – Receive 250,000 VND gift”:

Instructions to create a Family Wallet on VNPAY Wallet:

Step 1: Login to VNPAY Wallet app

Step 2: Select the Family Wallet feature

Step 3: Register for a Family Wallet for the person to be opened (Enter information, phone number of the person being opened, set spending limit)

Instructions for relatives to activate the Member Wallet:

Step 1: Log in to VNPAY Wallet app with the phone number that opens the Family Wallet (Login information is sent via SMS to this phone number)

Step 2: Change Password

Step 3: Set pin code

For details of the program, see HERE