Nhi and I loved each other for nearly a year, when the two families officially met to discuss marriage. Currently, the date of the engagement and the wedding has been fixed, and we are preparing the wedding preparations.
The day before, Nhi’s father called me to his house to play, saying that there was something he wanted to discuss. After the meal, he called the two of them to sit down and talk. He said he only had two daughters, Nhi and his sister Nhi, and the property and wealth that they accumulated throughout their life were only for her two sisters. Therefore, he will give Nhi a dowry of 3 billion VND, hoping that my wife and I will help each other do business and build a happy family.
I heard that and secretly rejoiced. The amount of 3 billion is not small at all, enough to buy a pretty apartment. So my wife and I will not have to rent a house but have our own house. My family’s conditions are very normal, my parents are now old and weak, only my father gets a few million pensions per month. A few tens of millions of dollars for grandparents is already a big deal, where do you get hundreds of billions of dollars for your children to buy a house.
It is normal for children to follow their father’s last name, unless there is no father, they must follow their mother’s last name. (Illustration)
Myself and Nhi have jobs but the salary is not very high. If they have their own house, their salary is only for spending and raising children, how good that is. I smiled happily and nervously thanked my future father-in-law, and at the same time was not used to promising him to treat Nhi well for the rest of my life, never changing my heart.
When Father Nhi heard that, he nodded in satisfaction, but the next condition he gave me made my face turn pale:
– It is also because the father has only two daughters, so he wants his grandchildren to have the mother’s last name, so that the father’s family line is handed down and maintained. The children born to 2 children, both children will carry the mother’s last name, regardless of boy or girl. In addition, after the death of her parents, Nhi will also be a worshiper, bringing home incense and incense. I only have small wishes, how do you feel that they can be fulfilled?
I am silent. It is normal for children to follow their father’s last name, unless there is no father, they must follow their mother’s last name. I’m still lurking here, but my father-in-law insists that my children follow the last name Nhi, how can I hear? After her grandparents died, the Nhi family did not have a son, so she brought the incense bowl to worship, that was acceptable. But I can’t agree with the matter of letting my children follow their mother’s last name.
But because of that 3 billion dowry, I respect my future father-in-law, so I politely refused, but that is a prerequisite that he wants to have.
– If my grandchild doesn’t follow the mother’s last name, will my family’s family name die from here? So I can’t even close my eyes when I die. I will find the groom to accept my gift and terms…
In your opinion, how should I choose? (Illustration)
You mean if I refuse the money and the other offer, I won’t let Nhi get married anymore? Knowing that he had made such a decision, I was not convenient to argue that day, but I asked for more time to think. Even so, in my heart I decided to cancel the wedding. I’m a man, how can I be so cowardly that I let my child bear my mother’s last name!
Who would have thought that when I told the story to my friends and parents, people would have mixed opinions. They say that whoever has their last name is still my child, only in name, that vanity is not as important as practical material. My parents are not important because I have a younger brother. They told me that if I wanted to live in my own house, I would give in to my father-in-law’s conditions. Just think about it for a bit.
If everyone is in favor of canceling the wedding, then I still have the determination, and besides, they advise like that, which makes me gradually shaken. Marry Nhi, I will have a good wife because before that I was very satisfied with her. There is also an apartment, both husband and wife have a proper name.
But thinking about it again and again, I still feel uncomfortable. In your opinion, how should I choose? Should we listen to friends and family so that their children will have their mother’s last name in the future? But how can my father-in-law still buy a house for me but my children follow my last name, that’s great!
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