Grandpa wants to transfer the name of the red book to us
My grandparents’ family was poor and had many children, so my father had to stay at home. During the years of being a husband, my father was very popular with his wife’s family. My oldest uncle lives far from home, so everything in the family is taken care of by my parents. When my grandparents were sick, my parents were always there to take care of me.
Last week, I took my girlfriend home to play and talk about getting married. At that time Grandpa said when we get married he will change the name of the red book. No one in my family commented, but Vi, my girlfriend, immediately objected, surprising everyone.
Vi said that she was very grateful to her grandfather for respecting us, but she wanted him to transfer the name of the house to my parents. Because those two people have devotedly taken care of them for many years, but we have not done anything. If you reach out to receive such a large amount of wealth, it is too greedy.
Vi said that we are young and healthy and we will make our own money to buy land to build a house. She asked her grandfather to transfer the land to my parents, so that they would have the motivation to take care of him at the end of his life.
When my parents went to the kitchen to make chicken, my grandfather told us he was really worried. He said my mother was very weak, afraid that she would die before my father. He was afraid that my father would go one more step, then this land will belong to outsiders. So he really asked us to accept that gift.
He said that, but Vi still refused to accept and affirmed that my father was a good person. The whole life of a son-in-law, without a plot of land, his father was also under a lot of pressure. Now that we receive the land given to us by our grandfathers, will our parents have to live on the land of their children? Is that so unfair to my parents?
Hearing Vi’s words, I came to my senses, did not expect my girlfriend to think so deeply. She was very concerned about my parents’ state of mind, but I don’t think so.
But my grandfather is very conservative, he doesn’t want to give my parents land, he just wants us to be in his name. I really don’t know how to advise you?
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