According to obstetricians and gynecologists, the golden age of a woman’s childbearing age is 20-35 years old. Pregnancy and childbirth after the age of 40 will be more difficult and also potentially more risky for both mother and baby. In particular, not only in terms of health, but also life after giving birth at a too old age of a mother will be difficult to avoid. The story of two mothers below is an example.
Mother “pleased” gave birth to a child at the age of 60, after giving birth, her husband asked for a divorce
Atifa Ljajic and Serif Nokic (from Siberia) are a barren couple who have been trying for a child for 20 years. It was not until the age of 60 that Atifa was finally able to pregnant Successfully using artificial insemination. Before that, doctors had repeatedly advised her to give up the idea of pregnancy, but the hope of having a child made her unable to give up. “I know it’s dangerous at my age to be pregnant, but I long for children. Thank God for giving me courage. I have never felt this happy.”Mrs. Atifa excitedly shared.
Atifa waited 20 years to welcome her first child.
And finally, Mrs. Atifa’s dream came true when she gave birth successfully in 2017. But when she was bursting with happiness, her husband – Mr. Serif (68 years old) felt that he was not healthy enough to live. in an environment with young children. So on the day his wife and children were discharged from the hospital, he announced that he would divorce and left.
“Atifa got what she wanted, now she is happy. Above all, I am a frail 68-year-old man, I have diabetes and have a weak heart. It’s not easy to sleep through the night with a baby’s cry.”Mr. Serif revealed the reason he decided to say goodbye to his wife.
The old man said he also refused to register his last name as the child’s last name. The reason was because the couple used donor sperm from an anonymous person.
Unfortunately, after Atifa gave birth successfully, her husband decided to divorce.
Before her husband’s harsh actions, Atifa was surprised but still optimistic and determined to raise her child alone. “No matter what happens, whether Serif is with me or not, I will fight hard, raise Alina the best way I can and put her in the right direction. I will live only for my children. It’s certainly not easy, but I believe there are good people out there who want to help me along the way.” she said.
Since then, Atifa has remained a single mother. But as she said, relatives and friends have supported her a lot in the process of raising children. The baby growing up healthy is the motivation that helps Atifa try every day.
The mother gave birth at the age of 73, 1 year later she regretted being a single mother
Yerramatti and her husband Raja (who lives in India) got married 60 years ago. During the early years of their marriage, the couple tried everything to have a child, consulted with many experts and also used various drugs, but to no avail.
Their journey to find a child continued to hit a dead end when Mrs. Yerramatti went through early menopause at the age of 40. “L.At that moment I felt like all the doors were slamming before my eyes. My wife and I considered adopting a child, but in the end, we couldn’t do it.” she recounted.
Yerramatti became pregnant after in vitro fertilization.
Yerramatti and her husband lived in pain because they could not have children for several decades like that. Until the summer of 2018, she heard that a woman in her 30s in the village had successfully given birth after in vitro fertilization.
“I had never heard of it so wanted to find out more. She knew how much I wanted to have children so she also shared details about costs, doctors and clinics. I knew IVF would be very expensive. difficult, but I want to try”she shared.
After that, Ms. Yerramatti immediately contacted Dr. Umashankar Sanakkayala and got an appointment in November 2018. The doctor did some tests to check her health and when the results showed that everything was fine, he agreed to perform IVF on her. “BILLIONI cried for joy” old mother recalls.
She gave birth to twins at the age of 73, setting a world record for the oldest woman to successfully give birth.
Ms. Yerramatti and her husband paid about 65,000 rupees (about 20 million VND) for the first cycle of treatment but because she did not have eggs, the results failed. They then used donor eggs combined with Mr. Raja’s sperm to conceive and she became pregnant. Not only that, she was pregnant with twins.
Yerramatti gave birth to twins on September 5, 2019, each weighing less than 2kg. It was a birth that shocked the medical world, but for her, it was simply a happy moment of being a mother.
“The first time I held my children in my arms, I felt that life was so good. We stayed in the hospital for a few weeks for the doctors to monitor and then went home when all three were healthy.” she confided.
Unfortunately, the happiness of having a complete family with the crying and laughter of children of Mrs. Yerramatti and her husband did not last long. After she gave birth, Mr. Raja (84 years old) had a heart attack and died when the children were only 1 year old. Currently, Ms. Yerramatti is a single mother at the age of 76, struggling to take care of her children.
Currently, Ms. Yerramatti is a single mother and facing many difficulties.
“I actually planned to leave this world in a few years. Of course I want to live a long time to see my children grow up, but I know I’m old. I asked a family member to take care of the children if I had any fate.” she shared.
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