Boyfriend earns 120 million/month but only gives gifts twice a year

In love storyto show affection to the person they like, boyfriends and girlfriends are not afraid to spend gifts.

However, depending on the situation and concept of life, each person chooses a gift suitable for themselves and their other half. Money and gifts also have a certain influence on each person’s love story.

Boyfriend’s salary is 120 million/month, but he only gives gifts twice a year, making the girl “cold and shivering”

Recently, on a group that attracts a lot of young people, a user named TN confided his love story. It is known that she is currently dating a guy of the 8x generation. This guy has a job, a stable income with a salary of 120 million/month.

However, this guy proved to be quite thrifty and meticulous in money matters. TN’s lover claims that he only gives gifts twice a year and the gift value does not exceed 10 million VND.

The fact that the boyfriend has a high income but is too detailed, calculating in money, TN feels a bit concerned and wondering whether to continue the love story with the guy or not.

Quote from this user:

“I am 26 years old this year, my boyfriend is 8x last year, calculated to be old. His income is also quite good, more than 120 million per month. Our relationship is always kept at a good level, he is also quite concerned, always calling, texting, facetime to me every day.

I just feel sorry for each part where he is a bit shy about gifts. A declares that he only gives gifts on two occasions a year, on his birthday and on Valentine’s Day, each item is limited to 10 million or less.

Occasionally he also buys small things for himself, but it must be necessary for living. As for what I like but I think it’s a waste, I definitely won’t buy it even if it’s cheap.

Money is sensitive, so I don’t ask him for anything expensive, sometimes I just want him to buy me something cute or a beautiful bouquet of flowers, I feel very happy.

From the point of view of him being unmarried, the gift of miscellaneous gifts, no matter how young or old, he has the right to decide, I must not ask him anything… even the smallest.

In general, I also work by myself, have a good salary, and can pay for my own life, but every time I see him so detailed, I don’t feel loved and cared for.

I think if he was like that when he was dating, how would he be when he got married? Hope you guys can advise me, should I break up with him to find someone else, because in my heart I feel that he is too detailed.

I don’t need anything fancy or expensive, but he said it made me feel so proud… just act like I’m asking for a gift, so he won’t give it to me?”.

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This user’s confession makes everyone feel embarrassed. Perhaps, this user should talk more with his boyfriend so that he understands what he means. While others argue that this is already human nature, change seems very difficult.

“Come on, friend, nature is hard to change. Now that he’s like that, he’ll be like that in the future.” user Hoang Phuong wrote.

“Let’s see what you give him in 1 year”user Hoang Hoa commented.

3 ways to deal with a stingy guy in love

Be an example for him

Be yourself comfortable and generous financially in the necessary circumstances to set an example for him to learn and follow.

If you find that you are willing to pay a certain amount of money to get certain benefits (such as being pleasing to others, warming up and expressing affection to relatives and friends, improving social relationships, etc.) useful for work…), there is no reason why he should continue to have the idea of ​​”keeping” for himself.

Regulate general expenses

Pay attention to gradually regulate your spending for dates. If he has Western ideas, is too clear in material matters, money with his girlfriend, it will probably make you uncomfortable and bored, but don’t rush to boycott him because of that. Apply assimilation slowly.

Subtle reminder

The analysis shows him that it is necessary to have a certain financial openness, to invest in order to earn profits (material, emotional, joy, social relationships, friends …).

You should choose times that are comfortable in both space and time (for example, when the two of you are honestly confiding in each other in a quiet and romantic place, with few people passing by) and give skillful suggestions, gently, carefully to avoid hurting him, losing face.

According to Emdep