No regrets stopping with someone who has a child of his own

I am 31 years old, have a stable job with a salary enough to take care of a full life. I love reading, traveling and communicating with people. Others commented that I was cute, pretty, sincere, funny, brave. I also experienced many beautiful and tearful love scenes.

He is about 1m6 tall, equal to me, and has been starting a furniture business on e-commerce platforms for two years now. The way he treats people with kindness and compassion. He is quite sensitive, thinks a lot, is the breadwinner of the family. He is not rich, his income is about 30 million VND per month, just enough to cover his life.

I come to you because I see sincerity and love. To accept him is also my effort. He has not brought me to introduce to friends and children even though he said he would. There are many things happening now, when there is an argument, he always says: “I’m so tired, why don’t you understand me”. I feel like he only thinks about his own feelings. With his ex-wife, he said he regretted being betrayed, but he practiced tolerance for the sake of his children. I see that’s not the case, he is arrogant and something is not clear. It’s a common child, but he still has a mother, every time he talks about his ex-wife, he always defends.

>> 13 years later I found out I had a child of my own

Until now, I decided to stop after six months of knowing him. I thought carefully when making this decision. I accept coming to him, cultivating feelings, you must too. But he only thought about his own feelings, never understood how I was. I love kids very much. His mother also often asked him to bring me food even though I had not met him. When I decided to finish, he remained silent. The reason, when the two were in conflict, knowing that I had a high fever, being alone, he did not care. I gave both of them a chance to calmly sit down and have a clear conversation, he refused because he was busy drinking and said he was too tired, both needed time.

I don’t regret having decided to stop. I once expressed my opinion: As long as I still express my feelings and attitudes, I still want to care about you. Sometimes when I show calmness to you, I only care about my own feelings. Thank you for sharing with me. Sincere thanks.

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