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Binh Dinh girl married a black Western man over 20 years old, went to America to live in a villa, no money to worry about

People disagree: “Married parents for money, because they want to go to America”

Never before, Ms. Le Thu Thao (born at the age of 32, from Binh Dinh) thinks he will marry a foreigner. Because he is afraid that the difference in language and culture will cause discord in life, marriage is difficult to be happy.

Then fate brought Thao to meet Vincent Gardner (51 years old, US citizen, currently director of the US security services business) through the introduction of his sister’s friend. Asked to take Vincent to see where to open a Gym in Saigon, Thao was happy and enthusiastic to help.

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Ms. Thao and Mr. Vincent knew each other while in Saigon.

Actually, back then, I was just thinking of helping him, but I didn’t think there would be any feelings. After a week in Saigon, he had to fly back to the US. Before flying off, he said he was going back to Vietnam to look for me. A month later, he came back to find the real me, and we officially got to know each other. When I talked to him, I found him very kind, honest and trustworthy. Especially have great respect for women.

Never saw her touch her body. I felt very safe being around him. Whenever he walks on the street, he pushes himself to the side of the road because he is afraid of being hit by a car, and he doesn’t allow himself to ride a motorcycle because he thinks he is too small and people can’t. saw it and then bumped into it.

Maybe because you work as a bodyguard, so you have to be careful like that. He was also very funny, made me laugh all day. Once a button on her shirt broke, I sewed it back for her. He later told me that the reason he loved me was because of the picture of him sewing buttons. I like family women“, Thao confessed.

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The couple decided to get married 6 years ago.

Thao’s family supports her love story even though Vincent is 20 years her senior. Everyone in the family that Vincent is related to also likes Mr. Vincent because he is very funny and understanding. However, at that time, Thao also had to face a lot of rejection from people for marrying an older man. They say he married her for money, for going to America, not for love.

But Thao was not bothered by the detractors. I know what I’m doing and I believe I made the right choice. He liked his parents because they had been through many ups and downs in life and had a lot of life experiences.

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Vincent is 20 years older than Thao, and is a Director, so it’s hard to avoid many people thinking that he loves him for money.

Husband likes to be spoiled, the economy doesn’t need to think

The day he set foot in the US, Thao’s life completely changed. In the early days, he was surprised that life in America was so different. Everyone was driving the car while he couldn’t drive, the cold weather, caused him to have a heatstroke and had to go to the emergency room. Due to fear of the dark, her husband’s job is often having to go to work at night, so she has to take her children with her husband, eat and sleep in the car, which is very inconvenient.

Thao is sad because he has no friends and family by his side, he stays at home all day to take care of his children, leading to a period of depression, demanding to return to Vietnam continuously. Fortunately, thanks to Vincent’s care, love and encouragement, he overcame these difficult times.

Currently, Thao’s main job is to help her husband answer the phone for his company and take care of his 3.5-year-old daughter. Loved the quiet, Thao and her husband bought a wooden villa on the outskirts of town to live in. This house is located in a tourist area, so there are many trees and flowers blooming everywhere, the population is sparse, so it is very peaceful.

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Their house has a beautiful baby named Amora.

Thao’s house is big, so every day when I open the door, I can see wild animals eating around the house, deer running, birds singing in the sky, … creating a very pleasant space. However, Thao’s father in the countryside still has to hear rumors that she married an American man but was poor and had to live in the jungle. Hearing those words, Thao couldn’t help but laugh.

Despite the age and cultural differences between the couple, Thao and Vincent never had a sharp conflict. “My husband doesn’t like to argue. I am angry, even if I want to argue, I can only listen to him alone, when he sees his wife’s anger, he is silent, goes elsewhere or finds something to make me laugh.

My husband and I have been together for 6 years now. From the moment we fell in love until now, he still takes care of me in the same way. To him, I’ve always been a little girl who needs to be protected. 6 years together, we still love each other like the first time. He shows his loving care through actions, some sweet words.

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Thao confessed that he had a very peaceful and full life in America.

My husband and I live a peaceful and happy life without any disputes. We often sit and talk to each other, solve problems together, so we never argue. Everywhere he goes, he buys something beautiful for his wife, buys clothes for himself all the time because he knows he is frugal, so he doesn’t buy expensive clothes. Then one day, suddenly, he hugged me again and said thank you for always being by my side. He was a very gentle person, never raised his voice.” Thao proudly talks about his life partner.

As Vincent’s wife, she didn’t have to worry about the economy. He has been in the business since he was 17 years old, so he has experience, knows a lot of different jobs to make money, so he always makes money.

He raised me from the time I met him until now, its been 6 years, I have never been in poverty, I can buy anything I want but I guess it’s because I don’t like to dress up, I don’t like branded stuff so I don’t care don’t buy anything. I sew clothes for my own daughter, buy things to cook to save money on cleanliness. I only save money to send back to my parents in my hometown.

My husband helps me to provide monthly money for my parents in the countryside because I am not working yet. So I love him very much. I don’t know what people thought of my life when I got married as a Director in the US because I didn’t pay attention to it. I’m not bragging either, I just want to live as simple as possible.” Vietnamese brides in the US added.

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Thao and his daughter.

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The Binh Dinh girl always feels lucky to have her current husband.

For Thao, her husband had nothing bad to make her unhappy. In his eyes, he lived a peaceful and emotional life, without alcohol, without smoking, without friends, without sons and daughters, and a life of responsibility. Thao was always grateful to life for giving him the opportunity to meet and be his wife.

However, there is one thing I want him to change, which is don’t be too workaholic, don’t put too much pressure on making money so you have to be stressed and don’t have much time to enjoy life. Thao stated that he did not need a life that was too rich, just enough to eat. Because she partially takes care of her health, and the moments she spends with her husband and children are precious.

Thao was unable to visit his family in Vietnam for more than 3 years due to the epidemic. Vietnamese brides in the West hope this epidemic will pass soon so they can return to visit their fathers and hometowns.

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