Husband has no need to share with me

From the time we met until now, we went to the movies once, went out twice. When the two got married, it was not his intention that the parents of both sides met and fixed the wedding date by themselves. I saw that he was not excited, the wedding ring also went to the roadside gold shop to buy two days before the wedding.

From the time of marriage until now, her husband has never left early before nine o’clock in the evening. If he returns at four or five o’clock at night, at seven o’clock he will go back late. My husband co-operated to open a pharmacy with some friends. He said he had to go over there in the evening to see how the staff was doing, sometimes he slept over, most of it fell on a holiday because the staff went out and no one was selling.

I complained to my husband, he said he had to go to work to earn money, when he was young, he played and when he got old, he got something to eat. I see youth but do not enjoy the joy of youth, it is too late to wait for old age, you know how to think for employees, why don’t you think about your wife?

I was in the countryside during my pregnancy, right on the quarantine period, so my husband was in the city and couldn’t come back to visit. When I gave birth, my husband was not around, so I felt very sorry for myself. Fortunately, by the end of the month, her husband was able to return. The night before the baby’s full month, he returned but did not sleep because he told the child, afraid of rolling over the baby, until now he has not slept with the child.

I think my husband will also have to stay for a few meals this time after being apart, but that afternoon he went to the city to go to a friend’s death anniversary. I am extremely sad. Then, every other week, he came back to visit his son, but only a few hours (about 40 km from the city to my house). At first, I still complained, and then felt that it had no effect, so I stopped talking.

>> The fiancé is suddenly emotionless

Two months after giving birth, my boss called to ask me to return to work soon, work online, my salary will increase a bit. I called my husband to consult, I really wanted him to say that his new wife was still in poor health, so she shouldn’t go to work. Who would have thought that he just said: “It’s up to you”.

I went to work early because I wanted to earn extra income and buy everything for my children. He told me to buy it randomly, and I don’t want my child to lack anything. Her husband has never taken care of a child, is not close to the child, so he has not yet felt the divinity of being a father. I worked online until the fifth month, then asked my grandmother to take care of the children and then went to the city to work at the company. I thought that after I gave birth my husband would change but he was still the same, there was no day to return early.

Two days when I was sick, my husband slept at the drugstore, the two-story house was only mine (my sister-in-law’s house let me stay). I eat and sleep alone, I am sick, I take care of myself, and work is stressful, so I am extremely stressed. I discussed it with my husband, he hummed to let it go, thinking that I was thinking nonsense, talking nonsense, nervous. I was sad to the face, but my husband also ignored me, not sharing a word.

I didn’t know anything about my husband’s work and life. I asked him to talk casually, and didn’t like to confide in his wife. How much money my husband makes a month I don’t know, I just know that every month he gives me 10 to 15 million dong, a month or a month depends on how well he does. That money is to help the grandmother take care of her grandchildren (grandmother takes care of her grandchildren, so she has to stop working), milk money because the child is no longer breastfed, diapers, vaccinations…

He said the business changes every month, the money earned is invested in other things. My husband works very little, when he listens to my advice, he decides on his own, does it and then reports it. He also wants to pool tens of millions of dong with a friend (acquainted with each other while playing football), if he can do business, he will expand. I advise you to consider, that job you are not familiar with, the other friend has not known for a long time, easy to be deceived. The husband did not listen, decided on his own, in the end the friend took the money and did not return it. This is not the first time he has been scammed like this.

Recently, he was tired, on New Year’s Day he constantly complained about being tired, lying in his room dialing the phone. He is very attentive to texting with his friends, not spending time talking with his family. I saw that my husband was tired so I didn’t want to grumble, but from the second day of the New Year he went out with friends until the seventh.

Every time he comes home from work, he is moody, tired, lying on the phone or sleeping, only talking to me a couple of sentences, still going to coffee near the house with friends at night. I can’t say that I shouldn’t be insensitive to my husband, accept life like this. I kept accumulating frustrations and then I questioned my husband again, he didn’t bother to answer, just said he was tired and I kept talking.

>> Husband no longer wants to share with me

I want to open my heart to my husband so that we can both improve our lives, when I no longer want to talk, this marriage has no meaning. My husband thinks that I am looking for a problem, my face is always gloomy. I didn’t eat or drink, I was afraid of being fat and ugly, now I’m thin, so everyone scolds me.

I want to improve this situation, husband and wife cook together and eat family meals. My husband does not cooperate, I come home late, I am not in the mood to cook. After having children, my husband didn’t want to be close to me and sleep with me, there was a reason to sleep separately because he left immediately, for example, looking after the pharmacy.

I really don’t know if my husband has another woman, when asked, he said he was tired and still a bit too tired to think about such things. I think few people do bad things to tell the truth.

I’m really stressed, no one to talk to. I am more and more depressed day by day. Does the husband really value this marriage? In addition, he still took care of my mother and children, sometimes afraid that I would be sad, he would also take me to eat or buy breakfast before going to work. He told me not to think wild, slowly it will change.

When he heard that my whole family had F0, at 10 pm he ran home to give me medicine. Can anyone give me advice, maybe after giving birth I’m too sensitive, thinking too much? Thank you very much.

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