Shocked by the suicide of a male student at a specialized school, Hanoi parents look forward to the day their children go to school
02/04/2022 12:28 GMT+7
The news that a 10th grade male student at a famous specialized school in Hanoi jumped to his death on the morning of April 1, shocked parents. A day earlier, an 8th grade female student in Bac Ninh also hanged herself and left a suicide note.
Before these heartbreaking cases, many people can’t help but worry and ask themselves the question, how can similar incidents not happen again? And more importantly, how can students not suffer psychological trauma and invisible pressures when they have to study at home for too long?
Sharing about this issue, Ms. Nguyen Thu Lieu (Nam Tu Liem district, Hanoi) said that she was deeply saddened when she read information related to the suicide of a male student at a specialized school. She wants her children to go to school as soon as possible and need psychological solutions to overcome the long time of online learning.
“I think that Hanoi should send students to school because amusement parks and shops are now open. The fact that children do not go to school not only causes many problems for children, but parents in many families are also experiencing psychological trauma without knowing it. Many parents do not know how to release their emotions, so they “get angry at the fish” on the child.
Meanwhile, reality proves that even though children do not go to school, many children still have Covid-19.
We are all aware that students staying at home for too long within the four walls will put them at risk of anxiety disorders and depression. Many times, the children themselves are not aware of mental health, do not know how to express the problem to their parents, which has aggravated the situation.
Therefore, as a parent with a child in 2nd grade, I urgently hope that Hanoi will open schools because the city has passed the peak of the epidemic, it will be too long to wait for a vaccine.“, Ms. Lieu said.
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| The building where boys at the school specializes in suicide. |
Mr. Tran Van Kien (Cau Giay district, Hanoi) said that his family has a daughter in grade 2 and a son of 5 years old, for a year now both children have to stay at home even though they are of school age.
“I understand that Hanoi is cautious about sending their children back to school, but up to now, being too cautious has more or less created unfortunate consequences.
My family lives in a 60m2 apartment, of course, for a long time, both of my children are only at home, not being able to interact with friends.
I regret that at the age when I need to communicate and learn the most to form skills, my children are just at home.
If children stay at home for too long, it also increases the risk of violent conflicts, the relationship between parents and children is also prone to stress, parents have to be under pressure about work, food, etc., leading to anger. , children are also inhibited leading to disobedience, so it is easy for parents to “pour” everything on top. Increased risk of domestic violence…“, Mr. Kien said.
Therefore, this male parent said that, although there is only more than 1 month left for the school year to end, he and many other parents still want to send their children to school so that they will not be disadvantaged any more.
According to initial information, the victim is LNNM’s grandchild (SN 2006, living in an apartment on the 28th floor of V1), who is studying Biology at Hanoi – Amsterdam High School for the Gifted.
At that time, LNNM stepped out onto the balcony and jumped down from a high floor. Before jumping, LNNM wrote a suicide note.
In another development, on the morning of March 31, the family of NKV (a student of grade 8 at Dai Phuc Secondary School, Bac Ninh City) discovered that their child was dead in a hanging position at a private house in Dai Phuc ward. At the scene, the family discovered that KV had left letters and many diary pages about his “going away”.
Hoang Thanh
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