How to teach children more effectively than spanking when children are naughty
When children are spoiled, rebellious, punishment is the right thing to do. However, parents should pay attention to their punishment, because if applied incorrectly, it will not only make children dissatisfied, not learn from experience but also lead to many other more serious consequences.
How to teach children is more effective than the mother’s spanking
Not long ago, a story spread on the internet about a naughty 8-year-old boy who destroyed school furniture. Although the boy’s mother and the school had a discussion, the matter was resolved. However, the mother still decides teach children himself in a particular way.
The boy went to pick up trash to help his mother.
Then the mother asked her son to pick up trash to earn compensation for the school. When seeing the child wandering around picking up trash, many people couldn’t help but be curious, so they approached to ask questions.
One person asked: “Why are you picking up trash like that?“.
The boy replied, “Because I broke the classroom window, I have to earn money to pay for it“.
This person continued: “Did you get punished by your mother to pick up trash?“.
The boy replied, “Not a punishment. This is because your mother has no money, so she asked you to help her pick up the trash. After that, I will sell it and pay compensation to the school“.
Through the conversation, everyone learned that the boy is in elementary school. Normally, the boy is very naughty, not only breaking the school’s glass door many times but also often disrupting the classroom.
Because this time the school asked the family to compensate, the mother thought that if she simply paid for the school, her child would not realize the lesson at all. Therefore, the mother decided to use this method to educate her children about responsibility.
Many netizens believe that this practical way of education is many times more useful than having children be scolded or beaten. It helps a child realize his own mistakes, take responsibility for his own behavior.
Apparently, this mother skillfully asked her child to help her instead of ordering her to pick up trash to earn money to pay the fine. In this way, children happily go to work and feel that they are both helping their mother and responsible for the mistakes they have made.
In fact, there are many problems of children stemming from lack of responsibility such as procrastination, dislike of housework, tantrums, laziness. Responsibility is an extremely important character for a person both in study and later work. Therefore, cultivating responsibility for children from an early age is one of the things that parents should pay attention to when educating their children.
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