Get the courage to get rid of your husband

I am 29 years old, married, living alone and no children. We have been sleeping separately for two years now because my husband and I have trouble sleeping. This year, my husband has no need to be close, so I am not active. We’ve probably slept together two or three times in the past year, but I’m still comfortable with it. My husband takes care of living expenses, eating and drinking, sometimes gives me some money to travel or shop, very open to everyone. I live frugally, never complaining or talking back to my husband. I am always sweet, living quietly despite disagreements. I know my husband’s character, shouting at each other only I suffer, he is tall and has crazy blood in him. Everything passed peacefully, I am satisfied with my current life.

Recently, her husband continuously went out to drink until one or two in the morning. He drank three or four times a week, came back with low legs, high legs, used profanity to curse for about an hour, swearing at someone I don’t know. Lack of sleep and constant mental torture stress me out. Once when he was drunk, he asked me something, I was tired of insomnia, so I didn’t want to answer, so he “kicked the basket” and cursed. I felt that the situation was not good, so I had to pretend and flatter to let it go to sleep peacefully. Since that time, every time my husband comes home from drinking, I have to greet him with a smile, even though there are waves in my heart.

>> 16 years tolerating a bad husband

Yesterday, he came back from drinking and cursed all kinds of things, came to my room to ask for it at two in the morning, I said I was tired and left it for tomorrow. So you told me to les, or play with that club. I am close with a few friends who are married and have children, all of them are beautiful and feminine, but do not like people of the same sex at all. He hit me a few times, cursed, insulted me and my family, even kicked me out. All the memories of four years ago came flooding back, that time he also beat me because he suspected I was gay, not understanding how he could think like that. At that time, I wanted to leave, but my career was good, I did not have any accumulation, so I did not dare to step out of the safe zone. Wanting to leave, I had to go elsewhere, leaving behind many things: family, work, friends because I knew he would never let me live alone. Every time I said goodbye, he threatened to kill me.

I just lived with him, trying to make a lot of money, trying to forget the pain to wait for “full wings” to fly. Yesterday was probably the time when God arranged for me to step on a new path, my dream is to have an automatic income so that I can go and live in the places I like. From childhood to adulthood, my family and I had to endure the insults and insults of my father, when I got married, I endured my husband. I want to stay away from toxic relationships. I only have one problem, I have seven kiosks for rent, about 28 million VND per month, this is my own money to save to buy land, build a house and just pay off all the debt.

There are two options when I move to another province: One is to continue to rent and hire a manager. The second is to sell seven kiosks for about four billion dong and deposit money in the bank, the monthly profit is probably about 20 million dong. I lean towards option one because I can both keep the land and have money, but I’m just afraid that he will come and disturb those kiosks. In addition, I still have a piece of land about a billion dong to retire. Can anyone give me advice or is there any other option I can do?

Echo

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