Why is it easy for office workers to cheat?
Victoria Milan (a dating site designed “for men and women looking for a secret, off-the-cuff relationship) surveyed 5658 women who have cheated on you or are currently cheating on you. their life about their profession.
As a result, 65% of women admitted that they had an affair at work. However, 85% of respondents do not want to sleep with co-workers even though they think that having an office relationship will make life more interesting and fun.
Here is a detailed list of the Top 10 occupations that are most likely to cheat on their partners (According to a survey by the Victoria Milan website):
1. Finance (brokers, banks, analysts): 21%
2. Aviation (pilot, flight attendant, flight attendant): 19%
3. Medical (doctor, nurse): 15%
4. Business (CEO, manager, secretary): 12%
The office is a place where it is easy to have a love affair
5. Sports (athletes, guides, representatives): 11%
6. Arts (musician, model, actor, photographer): 7%
7. Nightlife service industry (DJ, dancer, waiter): 6%
8. Legal (attorneys, secretaries, prosecutors, judges): 5%
9. Communication (press, public relations, media): 4%
10. Other fields: 2%
Why are office workers easy to cheat?
According to a social survey of 500 people between the ages of 20 and 60 of a forum on the issue of infidelity in the workplace, 70% of men and 50% of women consider it very common. This shows that both sexes realize that infidelity in the workplace is gradually becoming common.
50% of men believe that people cheat at work because they want to feel strange, 50% of men and 65% of women think that people cheat because they often see each other, 50% of men and 68% of women gender affirmation because they receive attention and help at work. 40% of men choose the reason they want to find relief from the burden of the family.
1. ”A strange thing is equal to a familiar one”
People still say “A strange thing is equal to a familiarity” and that is also the most justified reason for quick love affairs in the workplace.
On average, you will be in contact with co-workers 8 hours a day; 208 hours per month and 2496 hours per year. Not to mention there are long-term vacation trips with agencies….
Perhaps, with such a dense period of time, it is very easy to have feelings between the two sides, whether real or just “flash, cross the road”.
Moreover, the ancients have a saying: “bored with rice, craving for pho”, human nature is always attracted by new things and determined to conquer it. Compared to the nagging words of the wives or the indifference of the husbands, just a gentle touch, a kind gesture or a few greetings is enough to make the heart skip a beat.
Many people commit adultery due to their natural preference for “strange things” (Artwork)
2. The nature of a polyamorous person
Please borrow the words of the author Lonely Trai in the article “Amorous women have terrible magic”:
“Amorous men are people with abundant love capacity, this is due to genetic innate factors and partly due to the environment. Because of its abundance, they “distribute” to an incomplete person or their object. They are not able to receive and contain, so they have to find other objects or once they have to love many objects before their hearts are satisfied.
It is the same with amorous women, they love this person, but the passionate gaze of the other also makes them flutter. There are married people, even though they love their husbands, the confession of another man also makes them ecstatic.
Some people have just fallen in love, their heart seems to be broken, but when they meet the right person, they resurrect quickly and fall in love passionately… Every time they fall in love, it can be like the first time… They argue that one person doesn’t have the characteristics they need to love, so they have to love many people.”
3. Satisfy sexual needs
The reason may be that your partner is not capable of meeting physiological needs or you are too tired of the passive method of love from your partner. And coincidentally, you find sexual freshness in your co-worker.
4. The hidden benefits from the affair
My old agency has a sister named HX (born in 1990, originally from Hanoi, married). Ms. X. is beautiful, good at eating, so she is always loved by everyone.
Her starting point was also the editor who sat and typed on the keyboard like me, but less than a year later, she in turn became the head of the department and then became the General Secretary of the editorial office. During that time, there were many rumors about the love between the young editor and the editor-in-chief. Even the son that X. has just given birth to is said to be the result of a love affair.
Later, people tacitly coined the nickname for Ms. X. as the queen because the boss General was the King. And her office is the harem that no one dares to touch.
It can be said that adultery at work is not only temporary satisfaction but also an opportunity to help you advance. By having “out-of-the-box” relationships with your big boss, you can be supported and given the best possible conditions to achieve your desired position at work.
The rate of being discovered cheating in the workplace is very high
Lesson learned
Adultery is inherently socially unacceptable and so is office adultery. ”The needle in the bag for a long time will come out”, no matter how cleverly you hide it, until the 89th minute, everything will break and of course you will have to face the consequences directly. of which there is no way to salvage it.
At first, it will be difficult for you to sit comfortably. You may be sacked, fired, or even subject to the heaviest disciplinary action at your workplace. Not to mention, you may have to suffer brutal jealousy attacks from the opponent’s spouse.
The broken office romance makes co-workers become skeptical of your ability and dedication, claiming that promotion is due to “body” and shady relationships with superiors. Judgments are not only an insult to your honor, but also a stumbling block that pushes you down the road in your career.
So, always weigh the “gains” and “losses” so that you don’t have to say “regret”.
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