A story about a husband who wants to be scolded by his wife
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People come together for love. But when I walked in marriagelove is sometimes worn down by time, there’s not much left.
When Phuong and her husband were newly married, Hung – her husband was extremely attentive. Phuong does housework, Hung will run to help if he is free. In those days, the couple’s situation was difficult, but they always loved each other and knew how to help each other.
Wanting to develop the economy, Hung and his friends opened a barbecue shop. He often worked part-time at a restaurant all night.
Although her job is thriving, but seeing her husband getting thinner and thinner, Phuong loves and advises her husband to stay healthy. Money can be earned, no need to “sell life”, work to live, not work to die.
Hung has ambition, so regardless of what his wife says, he still tries to do more. Phuong cooks delicious food for her husband every day and periodically takes him to a health check-up.
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Later, the job prospered, the couple bought a house, got a car, and had more money. When she was pregnant, Phuong took a break from work at home.
Hung also does not need to stay up all night because there are people working under his hands. However, his lifestyle is still the same as before, always leaving early because he is “not used to being at home”.
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After giving birth, Phuong had a hard time taking care of her. The baby was sick, she was often so tired that she collapsed and cried because of the stress because there was no one to help her.
At first, Phuong complained to her husband. She also urges him to help with the housework. Occasionally, Phuong expressed concern about her husband’s health. On some anniversaries, she’s like a wailing child, constantly asking her husband if he still loves her. Although life is better, Phuong herself feels lonely in this marriage. She wants her husband to take care of her, care a little about both of their lives. But in response to her was his indifference, abandonment.
I don’t know since when, Phuong gradually stopped complaining to her husband. Perhaps because every time he asked his husband to do housework, he always remained silent and ignored it. Every time her child is sick, she wants him to hug and comfort her, but Hung is always impatient, even scolding her.
The times her husband abandoned the house and children, the overwhelming feeling of helplessness made Phuong increasingly depressed.
Phuong no longer complains, doesn’t call, doesn’t talk, doesn’t complain about the house anymore. Phuong’s silence is a harbinger of brokenness.
During an argument, Hung was stunned when his gentle and weak wife blurted out divorce story. It wasn’t until she carried the child to her mother’s house that he realized that his wife was not joking. Hung began to remember his wife’s nagging and asking for help, but it was too late.
A woman’s love is hidden in her words and the things she cultivates for life. When she loves someone, she will become verbose, like to remind people to pay attention, take a break. Once the love fades away, that “grinning” also stops.
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In marriage, love goes hand in hand with sharing. Love is building a family together. Love is creating the future together.
When in love with a man, women will make demands of him. She asked her husband to share the housework. She asked him to take care of the children, to shoulder the responsibility. She also worries about meals and sleep, worries about you being sick, worries about you being pressured on the outside.
The essence of a woman’s love is giving. When she does not expect her man to reciprocate her, take care of the family, share the housework, it means that she has begun to despair.
Women’s love is very delicate, they will focus on taking care of men little by little, taking care of him, taking care of him.
When a woman no longer hopes in a man, does not depend on him anymore, it proves that she has gradually given up her desire for happiness. A woman’s heart cannot bear repeated abandonment. Their love cannot withstand the wear and tear of time.
Then there will come a time when a man longs to hear words of help, scolding or reminders from his wife. That said, when men rush into life, don’t forget their own marriage.
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In fact, women are quite enthusiastic people. As long as a man gives her enough attention and love, joins her in building a marriage, she’s ready to “devote” the rest of her life. But with that dedication are the reminders and complaints. It is just another aspect of female interest.
Whether man or woman, there is a sense of responsibility on their shoulders. That is the responsibility of running a good family, accompanying children, giving each other warm love. Never make a woman suffer in silence. Their silence is sometimes scarier than all!
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