My husband and I have been married for 4 years, but we haven’t given birth yet, even though we both try our best to improve our health. Before marriage, my husband went to the doctor, it showed that his reproductive health was completely normal. After being married for a year without getting pregnant, I also went to the doctor but couldn’t find the cause.
“Men have a simple structure, find out soon. Just a complicated woman, surely the hospital hasn’t found her illness yet.” My mother-in-law said so. He said it was not without reason. However, I went to all the hospitals, went to the top specialists but still couldn’t solve the problem.
In the end we were helpless and left alone. My husband entertaining children is a gift from God, we don’t even want to, we just live healthy and happy lives, then at some point the baby will come unexpectedly. What other way? If only I knew the disease, I would still seek treatment, but here I can’t find the disease, I don’t know what to do.
In the end we were helpless and left alone. (Illustration)
Three years have passed, I am 31, and my husband is 32. At my age, friends of the same age have one hand and two children, the family is even. As for me, I am still anxiously waiting for the day I will become a mother. Seeing someone else holding a beautiful baby makes me want it so much.
Many times I helplessly want to scream out loud to ask God what did my husband and I do wrong? We work hard and treat the people around us well. We are also healthy and have no disease, so why am I not pregnant?
But until the last day, when I happened to sleep all night with my sister-in-law, I understood the real reason. My husband was on a business trip, and my brother-in-law was away too, so my brother-in-law brought the children to my house to play and then sleep. In the past three years, the relationship between my brother-in-law and my brother-in-law is quite harmonious.
We slept in the same bed, watching my sister-in-law pat her daughter to sleep, but my tears couldn’t help but wet the pillow. When she saw him, she loved me very much, constantly comforting and encouraging. Maybe it was a feeling that had been buried for a long time, I couldn’t help but sob and confide in my sister-in-law about my torment, longing, longing and despair over the past few years.
My sister-in-law listened quietly, I was so tired that I cried and fell asleep when I didn’t know. I woke up in the middle of the night when I heard my sister-in-law’s voice next to me:
“Sorry… I didn’t mean to hide it from you… I love you so much, but Thanh won’t let me say it… Or if you get divorced, marry someone else and have kids…”.
I realized my sister-in-law was dreaming. But it was the words he spoke subconsciously that took me by surprise. Maybe at night he tells me stories, he thinks a lot, so he dreams at night. And obviously those are the words I want for my sister-in-law, Thanh is my husband’s name!
I didn’t sleep all night. In the morning, I decided to turn the cards face up with my brother-in-law. He was surprised when he heard that he had a dream that I could hear. But her secret is out, she has to tell me everything.
My husband used to love someone very much but his mother objected. They broke up, he went abroad with his family. A year later, she announced that she had given birth to twins. You can tell by looking at the pictures that they look a lot like him. My husband desperately wanted to be reunited, but his mother-in-law still refused to agree. He told me that no one can bear children, and then forced him to look into my eyes to marry me, or else he would deny me. At first, my mother-in-law liked me so much that I couldn’t bear children.
The mother-in-law didn’t know, but the brother-in-law happened to know what her brother was doing. (Illustration)
My husband complied. But before marriage he went to a medical check up to get normal results, and then immediately underwent a vasectomy, preventing me from getting pregnant. So all the errors are attributed to me, he checks beforehand so no one forces him to check again and again.
My husband planned that when his mother-in-law was fed up with her daughter-in-law’s inability to have children, she would pick up her ex and her two children. Of course then he had to agree. A perfect plan but too cruel for me. For his own sake, he toyed with another innocent woman’s lifetime happiness!
The mother-in-law didn’t know, but the brother-in-law happened to know what her brother was doing. He forced her to be completely silent. If I don’t sleep with my brother-in-law, when I get divorced, I won’t be able to understand the real source.
My sister-in-law begged me not to make a fuss, but to get an amicable divorce. I will tell him to compensate me a bit. Should I accept or in any way pay for what I suffered?
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