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The deadlock of love when taken care of by family

My family is pretty classic, living the old fashioned way, having a hard time with the love affairs of children. I know many people but dare not publish anyone.

I even made it, never dated my lover, not even with friends. When I was in college, I fell in love once when I was threatened with releasing sexy photos for detention. I told my mom because I was afraid things would go too far, and then she controlled me more tightly. I texted my friend and my mom scolded me for thinking I was “looking for a boy”. I was sad, stuck, and understood that because I made a mistake, my mother was like that.

I’ve been dating someone for 10 months now. He always wanted to be open about us with friends and colleagues. I refused because my mother was in charge and wouldn’t let me go anywhere. From Tet until now, I found him texting with another girl. She was crying in the restaurant so I forgave her.

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Recently, I discovered that he was texting a new friend at the company, going to work together, but traveling in two cars. This time she doesn’t cry, but says she loves me more than before, thinking about future, her mother also wants her to get married soon, she wants to take me everywhere. And now that he wanted to pause for a moment, there was a problem he had not discovered.

I know it’s all because of me, initially he wanted to announce it to the public. Wherever he goes, he asks me to go with him, but I always refuse (because of my family, I don’t dare to express my feelings openly to him). I’m stuck, stressed, don’t know what to do, wishing everyone could show me how to solve it.

Han

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