Pha Le (born 1987), Crystal emerged from the Sao Mai contest – A 2010 gathering and is remembered for her strong soprano voice. There was a time when Crystal was often involved in scandals, especially romantic relationships. In 2020, the singer signed up to marry her Korean-American husband and then welcomed her first daughter. I thought I had a warm and happy life, but yesterday (March 28), Pha Le suddenly announced that she had “parted” with her husband.
Pha Le announced her divorce from her Korean-American husband.
Pha Le said that she and her husband have different cultures and views on life. This condition has been going on for quite some time. The two tried to mend but couldn’t heal, so they decided to break up amicably. After the divorce, her daughter will live with Crystal, but she and her ex-husband are responsible for caring for and raising the baby. It is known that the baby snail is a “sweet fruit” after years of waiting and the many pains and hardships Crystal has endured on her journey. pregnantgive birth to.
From now on, she will raise Snail alone – the “sweet fruit” that after years of yearning for the female singer.
Have miscarried 3 times in 1 year, want to “buy seeds” to be a single mother
Before getting to know Snail’s father, Pha Le suffered 3 miscarriages in 1 year. He once told: “Parents say ‘one miscarriage equals seven births’. But I had three miscarriages in one year. The pain was so intense, so excruciating, so haunting all the time that I thought it would be okay if I didn’t have kids if it was because of the body.”
Even Pha Le had intended to perform artificial insemination to become a single mother and had initially carried out this plan. He spent 1 billion to buy “beautiful” sperm in Thailand to prepare for conception. But later, due to personal problems, the female singer couldn’t do it and later met and fell in love with her husband, so the plan was cancelled.
Before getting pregnant with the miracle baby Snail, Pha Le had 3 miscarriages in just 1 year.
What Crystal couldn’t believe was that when she came to her Korean-American husband, she received news of a natural pregnancy. However, in the first months of pregnancy, she was always anxious for fear of repeating the same sad story. The singer was so worried that she didn’t dare tell her family, fearing that she wouldn’t be able to look after her child like she used to. He said to himself with a drop of blood in his stomach: “If it’s good enough, I’ll stay with you, but if not, I can’t try.”
Along with the anxiety in her heart, symptoms of severe morning sickness tormented Crystal. He once shared: “I am nauseous morning and night without exception… stuck in this throat… I am so addicted to eating but now I want to pass out when I take food out, I have goosebumps, I am like an addict, I can’t sleep, I can’t eat.. Just think about the thing I used to love, until I took it out, my soul would fly everywhere… After 3 months, I have completely lost 600g… while before dieting and doing all kinds of exercise, I can’t lose what part even.”
While pregnant with her daughter, Pha Le suffered from severe morning sickness and lost weight.
It wasn’t until after the first 3 months of pregnancy that Crystal’s pregnancy stabilized. And it was at this point that she herself dared to believe that she really had “good news” and was the mother she had wanted for so long. Fortunately, in the later stages, Crystal’s pregnancy was quite gentle. She tries to maintain a happy and active spirit so that the baby she is carrying develops healthy.
12 hours of painful labor, postpartum depression from breastfeeding
As a strong personality, all kinds of needles are not afraid of anything, but Pha Le understands how painful it can be to give birth up to 12 hours. At 4 am I went to the hospital, it was very painful, my uterus dilated 1 cm, still asked the doctor: “Have you had surgery because it hurts too much”, but at that time, the doctor turned his face away, He told the condition of the baby and his mother too good to give birth naturally, so she didn’t give birth by cesarean section. The newly opened uterus is only 1 cm, but the contractions are very strong, and the face can’t stand it. At 8 o’clock I said the pain had recurred, my husband’s hand was scratched, then spinal anesthesia was given to give birth normally…
Stealing the baby wants to come out, so push the head down so close, touch, you can see the head, the distance is 3 cm, so everyone is encouraged to try to go around 12 noon – 2 pm to give birth. By then the anesthetic had worked, so there was no pain, lying in the sky and whispering under the sea. Exactly at 14.00 the medicine ran out, the doctor oath said it was like God, the clock just couldn’t stand it, so it started to hurt again. Okay, this is a life and death moment, everything is blurry, just aches and pains, don’t dare to push because the doctor has not given it, now the baby’s head is very close, everyone is busy preparing for normal delivery. . And I just followed the doctor’s instructions, took a breath and pushed for about 15 minutes, then the snail came out. Geez! I can’t believe I can do it, I can’t believe it!”, The mother of one child told.
On the day of delivery, the singer suffered 12 hours of pain.
Unlike other mothers, after giving birth, Crystal’s milk overflows like a levee. This was once the pride of female singer 8X. However, it wasn’t long before she clogged the milk ducts from too much milk to pump in time. Hai Phong’s original vocalist at the time revealed that she sucked about 5 liters of milk every day, pumping every 15 minutes because otherwise her breasts would be so tight and sore that even raising her hand would feel like heaven.
And although her daughter is very good, but because of long-term insomnia, pain such as “dead over and over again”, “exploding the whole body” due to blocked milk ducts, Crystal fell into postpartum depression. He was also haunted by the sound of the alarm to wake up to suck milk, so when Snail cried and comforted him, Pha Le shouted loudly: “You shut up!” shocked the girl into silence with a face full of fear.
Breastfeeding is not easy either.
Worried that everything would be pushed out, this mother of one decided to wean the Snail as soon as she was 1 month old. After that, parenting gradually becomes lighter and more comfortable. Unfortunately, right now, her mother-in-law in Korea is seriously ill, so her husband has to take care of her. Therefore, in her divorce papers, Pha Le said that she had almost single-handedly raised her child since she was born. Maybe it was the distance and events that pushed the Crystals away from each other and eventually broke up.
Many people believe that with this marriage, Pha Le will not have to regret it because she used to be very happy with her husband and especially satisfied when she was “attracted” by the very beautiful and cute baby snail. Even though from now on, she will be a single mother, raising children by herself, but surely the female singer will always be happy to become a mother after years of yearning and working hard.
All the hardships and hardships that Crystal went through were rewarded with a beautiful and lovely mixed race princess.
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