Bringing “hidden memories” about confessing to outsiders

04/24/2022 10:24 GMT+7

I realized that my husband often carries “hidden memories” of the fact that the husband and wife confessed to outsiders while “remaining quiet” with his wife. Many times I “open my mouth” but my husband still avoids…

A.Nguyen (HCMC)

In bed, there will be times when men need advice from the same blanket. It will be smooth if the content is fun, but if it is full of twists, it is difficult to avoid this and that.

Do not discuss in detail, just focus on the topic “Why do men ignore people with related rights and obligations and consult outsiders?”. It’s not easy to “operate” on your stomach, but basically there are a few ideas.

The first reason is called… courage. Where do men wear heaven and earth, but on the bed is a belly full of “escape from the truth”. For example, with the sentence “Is today’s husband worse than yesterday’s husband?”. Only fire has smoke, water is flowing, clouds are flying, whoever asked that question did what. But in their hearts, they expect the answer to be “no”, only by… not asking their wives. Not knowing is not a crime.

Can’t “open mouth” my husband about it (Illustration image (SHUTTERSTOCK)

Another reason, the men choose not to “face to face” with their wives because they do not believe that the spoilage of the previous night’s sugar is permanent, thinking that it is just a little bit of wind and silently trying to cure it, instead of losing face. opine.

The truth is from the life partner. Because she did not have the heart to pour cold water on, during the counseling sessions, many women often mocked, doubled down, even denied. No matter how ignorant men will be, they will recognize such feedback and turn their beliefs to the rationality of outsiders. Anyway, it is still recommended that you be bold and say a word to the person who lifts the towel to fix the bag.

Difficulty in bed is no different from other diseases, the earlier it is detected, the easier it is to treat. There is nothing better than having the courage to face the “sub-clinical” results from the first person holding hands and knees. If you don’t ask people who cover the same blanket, lay their heads on the same pillow, ask who now?

After finding out, come to help your husband solve it, if necessary, treat it, equally exciting. Getting him to confess is one thing, but it’s unlikely to move him to the doctor.

Doctor Do Minh Tuan

According to www.phunuonline.com.vn