From betrayal to the gentle ending of a soulful but “smart” couple
Café de Flores is the story of people separated in time and place but connected in profound and mysterious ways. The film chronicles the parallel fates of Jacqueline – a young mother with a son with Down syndrome in Paris in the 1960s and Antoine – a DJ who recently divorced his young wife in Montreal 2011. The two stories together are love – an impulsive, haunting, tragic love that always exists.
Café de Flore has won 13 nominations for 2012 Genie Award
Today we will only talk about the story of Antoine – a successful DJ with a marriage that his life partner chose as his soul mate. However, a 20-year soulmate is not as good as a hot young Rose who has only known her for 2 years. Yet people say to each other, a marriage that starts with close friends will be the most harmonious and lasting marriage.
However, a 20-year soulmate is not as good as a hot young Rose who has only known her for 2 years.
A soulmate is not necessarily suitable for marriage
The male lead Anton and the female lead Caroline spent their youth together when they were in school. Then they got married and had children for 20 years. In the eyes of the outside world, they were a perfect couple, but in the end, Anton fell in love with the beautiful Rose and betrayed his wife.
Before the divorce, Anton and Caroline still wanted to find a way to save. They meet psychologists, psychics to find out why a relationship like a soulmate for 20 years has finally broken down.
Whether through reason or spirituality, seeing these things beyond common sense, they eventually liberated each other.
A lot of people think that the love that comes from friendship will definitely last.
Both used to be so intense
Often our soul mates can appear when we are alone, making you feel “saved” or simply by… predestined.
But the truth is that these people who make us feel “right” and “special” often have myths that we don’t realize.
Caroline and Anton’s decades-long love affair has left them full of childhood memories, they also share the same love of music, exchange of thoughts, interests…
However, best friends are not perfect love, there are still problems that they need to face.
Three love archetypes to help you better understand relationship problems
From the point of view of the movie, Caroline is Anton’s confidant, but Rose and Anton are like twin flames.
How can we understand the emotional stage of our lives through different levels of relationships?
The best friends
The other person makes us feel comfortable and we mistakenly think that we can be with them forever, that we can get married and have children. The point of failure in this relationship is that you always feel you are right through the judgment of others.
As a result, we often trust other people’s opinions about us more than our own feelings. That: “You two are truly a pair”, “So beautiful, so understanding each other, isn’t it fate”… but sometimes you’re not really sure if you want this person to be your spouse?
Believe in fate
In the early stages of building a relationship, the two sides progressed rapidly. After the quarrel, passion is used as a means of reconciliation. When the relationship is progressing slowly, it leaves you hurt by painful lessons such as lies, betrayal… When the relationship has fallen into a vicious circle, it is hard for you to realize that both of you have how hurt.
Twin Flames
You may have settled into a relationship, the “twin flame” is not the love you intended, or it came without following the rules. This kind of love breaks stereotypes, subverts our emotional expectations, and makes us ultimately independent selves.
A stranger can make us different in unexpected ways. This kind of love is not easy and it will not be extinguished as easily as Anton and Rose.
What you need to realize: Letting go is not giving up, nor is it losing
Regardless of the stage, your existence and the way to deal with love are not wrong. No meeting is in vain, you don’t have to blame yourself. Appearing in a few minutes in life is also marked by a husband of 20 years.
We need time to let go and let go, both of which are necessary processes to move on to the next stage.
You have to believe that life is limited, yet you create limitless possibilities. Don’t for a marriage think that man is a lifelong soulmate and then despair into life.
For anyone, ending the love that was once a youth is an extremely difficult thing. Don’t look at him having an affair to live the rest of his life in hatred, think it’s time to let go. Because we live for the future, not the past.
The desperate Caroline finally let go gently
In the film, the two deal with a relationship that cannot be continued through their own methods.
Anton, who suffered from great guilt, and Caroline, the strong woman who learned to “let go” to finally free each other.
Please remember that letting go is a choice, not surrender. Letting go of a rotten long-term marriage is like letting go of an old, stagnant part of yourself.
Every strength is a cocoon born of tenderness. Accept the past. Be gentle with yourself by the days after you have completed your “responsibility”. Divorce day will also be the day to open a new door, so that you can be upgraded and better.
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