Should I divorce my second husband?

I am 39 years old, married for six years, have a 14 year old daughter with my first husband. My first marriage ended after eight years because of my husband’s physical and emotional abuse against me. Four years later I married my current husband. He is affectionate, 25 years older than me, highly educated, and also had his first marriage before he met me. He is an official, when he divorced, he left all his assets for his wife to raise children. When he met me, he was still at a rented house, riding an old motorbike. He loves me and my mother and sees him as his own son. We used to have a good time, happy times.

Being together for a long time, I discovered that he was just a good talker, passive, everything big and small came to me. If you do something, I’m the one dealing with the consequences in the end. What I asked for, he always did in a forced way, and his friends asked him to always be enthusiastic and focus on helping to get good results. After six years of working with me, he is still living in a rented house, his income has not changed. He does not have the will to progress at work, does not share anything in the family. Money, my feelings, he did not pay attention. Everything makes me tired, want to let go. What should I do?

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