Letting go of the person I’m shaking so that I don’t blame my husband

To this day, I no longer understand whether I love my husband or that person. I’ve been thinking all year and still no real answer. A husband is a husband, that person is that person. I accept the fact that many of you may find it despicable, that I love both, but in different ways. Only my husband is my family, and that person I am ready to let go.

The problems you guys say like he’s a master girl hunter, come to me for the purpose of “shepherding vegetables” or even if he leaves her husband, he will never marry me… I’ve already thought about it. Not sure if it’s true, just know that when he and I discovered that our feelings for each other were growing, we both determined and agreed to try to keep our distance. He always said he never wanted to destroy my family, if we met again, we might not be able to control ourselves.

>> Happy with both husband and wife

It’s true that we set real limits, trying to prevent the “child” of ourselves from resurfacing. If we wanted to, in the past two years, we would have rushed into each other a long time ago. I guess you are the same, in 10 love parts will have more than half love and respect, not just love. The first impression he made to me was that he might be a bit cold and pretty on the outside, but what I do know is that he respects the process of trying and the will in me. Like me, I am not only attracted by his appearance but also admire his talent and intelligence. We have similar work, career path, can share and support each other. If only there was no such thing as chemical reactions or electric shocks when looking into each other’s eyes, they could really become good friends.

Some of you said that if I didn’t push it back, the story wouldn’t have progressed that far, which is probably true. With other people, I will be cold from beginning to end, oh, I do not reply, but with you, it is true that I have reduced my distance. Anyway, feelings are a difficult thing to talk about, now I’m not trying to think about where the real problem is or to what extent I’m cheating. I stopped and treated it as a passing experience. How easy is it in your life to really love someone but not a loved one? I also do not intend to say this to my husband as many of you say. I am determined to live to my heart’s content, to die carrying this secret.

>> Husband admits that he really loves you

As for the “I will leave your husband, you will not marry me”, I have always determined to get married only once in my life, not intending to go away if I divorce. Again, thank you so much for taking the time to read my post and leave a comment. I have become stronger and more resistant to similar things that may happen in the future. I will keep the happiness I have.

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