Every child is a “potential stock”, as long as parents do these 3 things well
Children today are parents’ most precious treasure. Parents often worry about their children being hurt physically and psychologically, so they always respond to their children’s requests. Therefore, many children are “too spoiled”, have unruly attitude, disobey…
The reasons for such actions often stem from many aspects. For example, children’s nature is hyperactive and naughty, not knowing that their behavior is wrong; Or because parents do not properly teach, pamper their children without correcting them; Or because children themselves have not yet learned and mastered social norms…
People’s general impressions of such children are often not good. They even think that it will be difficult for children to grow up to achieve good results.
The reality is not so, every child is a “potential stock”. If children can receive the correct education, they can definitely become talented and promising people in the future.
Why can unruly, naughty kids still be “potential stocks”?
1. Have a rich imagination
There is a stage, children can “chatter” all kinds of stories in the world, which sounds quite illogical. Many parents are also angry with their children because their children talk too much, say “stupid” things… But that’s how children learn and expand their awareness.
Naughty children often have a rich imagination, able to think of things that others do not expect. However, because the children are young, they do not know how to express their thoughts in a standard way.
If properly guided, it is a way for children to be creative, helping to develop better brains. Therefore, parents should patiently listen, explain to their children, and at the same time correct incorrect statements.
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2. Have principles and wills
Some kids are stubborn and don’t like to give in. Children will always follow their own principles, do what they want to do and like to give their own opinion. In fact, this personality represents one’s principle and will. In the future, if the child is properly oriented to develop, he will become a strong-willed person who is always consistent with himself and dares to face all objections.
3. Very smart
There are kids who love taking things apart because they’re really curious about things they don’t know. They can use their hands to disassemble toys, see how the structure inside the toy car is, a little bigger, they know how to use screwdrivers, hammers… to dismantle larger items…
Many children have high IQ, but because they are not used in the right place, they form destructive and excessively naughty behaviors. At that time, parents should pay more attention to their children’s behavior. Instead of just scolding children, guide them to be creative and develop correctly.
3 things to educate children to become promising people
1) Proper parental guidance
Parents should observe and accompany their children’s growth. They should be the ones to find the right educational methods and take their children to participate in some extracurricular activities, helping them gain more experience.
Let the child face more things, go through some difficulties and failures, so that he can train his character. Later, even in the face of storms, the children remain calm to find a way to solve the problem.
If the child achieves something, praise and praise should be given more. When people pay more attention to them, children will become more aware of what is right, welcome, and inappropriate action. Thus, children themselves can change their behavior, more and more listen to their parents.
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2) Encourage children to develop their imagination
Parents should encourage, understand and acknowledge children’s imaginations when their children are young. Instead of showing impatience, they should devise different methods for the journey of discovery, helping children to always feel new to learning and development. Gradually, children will know how to use their imagination to be able to create better achievements and make themselves more promising.
3) Don’t just talk, let your child experience it for himself
From the parent’s and adult’s point of view, the child’s actions are wrong. But it is unlikely that the child has realized that on his own. When the child himself feels that he is not wrong, it is not sure that he will listen to the teachings of his parents.
Therefore, in the process of educating children, parents should let their children experience their own mistakes and directly face the consequences of those wrong actions.
At the same time, parents should also respect children’s opinions fairly. Using the right method, we can correct our child’s misbehavior.
*According to Aboluowang
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