In the last 12 days, every time she saw her child sleeping soundly, Mbak L smiled happily because the dream she had dreamed of for 14 years had come true. 14 years with many difficulties, tears, hopes and disappointments, in the end, God did not disappoint, allowing her and her husband to find “the light at the end of the tunnel”.
Son of Ms. L and Mr. A. After 14 years of waiting.
“Well, that’s impossible, baby, you are destiny”
Ms L and Mr A married in 2008, then he was 28 years old and he was 32.2 years after marriage, they let go but waited forever without any good news. In 2010, she and her husband decided to go to the doctor to find out that the reason was because polycystic ovaries were not ovulating.
So she and her husband decided to use the IVF assisted reproductive method. Ms. L said his first IVF cycle had 28 embryos on day 3. He transferred 3 embryos, 2 embryos each time, but all to no avail. The couple was so sad because every time they had high hopes, they were so disappointed, that they decided to stop transferring embryos even though there were 22 embryos in storage.
Since the couple was infertile, thanks to modern medicine, they too failed, so they turned to oriental medicine. Whenever I heard that there was a good fertility doctor anywhere, my wife and I would take each other there. Da Lat, Lam Dong, in the forest, alleys, even to the ethnic areas, anyone who sent her and her husband away but still could not see the child.
“My husband loves having a baby, there was a time when the teacher said it was so good that he fell in love with tens of millions of rupiah. The husband and wife’s money for treatment of Southern and Northern medicine is also sufficient for in vitro fertilization. My wife and I went until 2015-2016 for a stop. When I got married, I only had 40kg, but took Southern medicine, Northern medicine increased 52kg”Ms. L. share.
Her husband and husband had 8 failed embryo transfers, so they thought about giving up many times.
No matter how big the hope is, there are times when you want to give up, but the desire to have children, especially when you see a sweet baby, can’t be resisted by you and your wife. In 2019, after being introduced by Dr. Than Trong Thach, this couple decided to give their faith and hope again.
“My husband and I met with the doctor, he suggested raising the remaining embryo on day 5 and then transferring, otherwise the doctor would do it again.” The remaining 22 embryos on day 3 were raised on day 5, only 1 medium type embryo remained and I still failed to transfer embryos for the 4th time. In 2020, my wife and I started asking Uncle Thach to do IVF a second time.”said Ms. L.
By the way, Ms. L. said, at the time of the second IVF, he was 40 years old and after injecting eggs to create embryos, he had 8 embryos on day 5. The first time he transferred embryos, he was far from successful. When she found out she was pregnant, she and her husband were happy because after almost 10 years of quitting, they had found a baby. But God was so good at teasing her, that the husband and wife’s happiness only lasted until the 9th week of pregnancy. The day she received the news that her pregnancy had stopped progressing and had a natural miscarriage, her heart ached.
“After that, the doctor encouraged me and my wife to continue the embryo transfer, I transferred 3 more times but there was no result. The couple was so disappointed, that they told him they must have given up, that the fate of the child was determined by heaven.
After that, I sent messages encouraging my husband and I, if I don’t try again now, I’m afraid my age won’t allow me to continue. My wife and I were very hesitant because the cost was so high. I went back to the table with my husband, he told me it was impossible, but I felt very sad, so I stopped trying to do it again, just to be satisfied and happy. So, my husband and I decided to entrust it one more time.” Sister L. smiled at the memory.
3rd IVF and 9th embryo transfer was successful.
This third time IVF, he got 12 N5 embryos. After biopsy of 4 embryos, there were 2 abnormal embryos on chromosome 21 and 2 normal embryos, she transferred one embryo later and became pregnant at the time of embryo transfer.
“The next day of beta testing, I tried it and it didn’t show up, so I cried so much that night. The next day, I thought I’d go for a beta test for fun, but I knew I didn’t have any kids and then I thought that after I finished testing, I messaged Thach to congratulate him. The couple’s feelings at that time were very happy, happy because they did not expect to be blessed with a baby like today. My husband is delighted, there are no words to describe it.”said Ms. L.
Happiness explodes upon welcoming a baby
Thanks to the biopsy, which selected normal embryos, Ms. L. is also somewhat convincing. Moreover, when she was 12 weeks pregnant, she did all the tests so that she wasn’t too worried during the pregnancy.
Her biggest concern is getting pregnant in the midst of the complicated situation of the COVID-19 epidemic, so she always tries to make sure it is the safest for both mother and child. Since it was so difficult to have a baby, during her pregnancy she was cared for very lovingly by her husband and family. Her husband is taking care of her from AZ, she doesn’t need to do anything, just rest to take care of mother and child health.
She gave birth at 38 weeks by caesarean section. About to give birth in the COVID-19 season, her husband was not allowed in, but when she heard the baby crying, she breathed a sigh of relief, all worries suddenly disappeared. Finally, after going through many hardships, she and her husband were able to bring home their beloved child. “The first time I saw my baby cry without tears“Brother L. has tears in her eyes.
She gave birth by caesarean section in early March.
As a mother for the first time at the age of 42, Ms. L. experienced many surprises and difficulties. Fortunately, he had a brother-in-law to take care of the baby and help, so that also helped a little.
“My wife and I had a baby thanks to Uncle Thach because couples will let go, so couples with similar circumstances should try to be motivated and comfortable and the baby will come back.”Ms. L. sent a message.
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