It is said that the workplace is like a battlefield. To be able to occupy a position for yourself, you must calculate, compete, find a way to compare with your colleagues. Because of this, you cannot guarantee that everyone will be nice to you.
The office is probably the harshest place, because there you can meet a lot of people. So be very alert to survive. Photo: Sohu
There are good colleagues, but there are also many bad colleagues who always try to bring you down everywhere.
Therefore, colleagues who actively reveal these 5 things to you should be careful, if you are not alert, sooner or later you will have to suffer great losses!
1. Complaining of unfair leadership and giving ideas about negotiating with the boss
Colleagues complaining and complaining to each other behind the boss’s back is normal. However, if someone complains to you that your boss is not fair like this, unfair like that, greatly affects everyone’s interests and gives you ideas to negotiate with your boss and then encourages you to try. If you fight, be careful. That could be a trap.
Because, if they are not satisfied, they can present their views directly to the leader. But because of the risk as well as not wanting to lose points in front of the boss, they will have thoughts of going around to achieve the goal and you are their “fat” target.
In the end, they can sit back and profit while you get screwed, bringing unwanted effects. Therefore, do not listen to the instigation of others and bring trouble.
2. Giving too much information
People who are dishonest, have a bad heart, often talk a lot because they think the other person will trust them if they are open and not hidden.
However, providing too much unnecessary information is an unusual sign that colleagues are not telling the truth that you expect, even they want to distract you and confuse you.
3. Motivating you to quit your job
Unless it is a colleague who is very close and always wants your best, the fact that colleagues who have a normal relationship with you send recruitment information or advise you to quit your job and move to another company shows that they do not like you and want to remove you from this place.
4. Actively tell gossip that distracts you
Nosy people are actually people with low EQ, and should be especially avoided. Photo: Sohu
Some people are especially fond of gossiping about other people at work, to be frank, they are very inquisitive. Nosy people are actually people with low emotional intelligence. Besides such people, you will be distracted and distracted when making certain decisions, especially you will tend to believe and follow their judgment. And that will be a great loss for you.
In fact, this type of person is too idle and being too idle will lead to disturbing others and spreading negative energy everywhere. Therefore, if you encounter such a person, it is best to stay away.
5. Promotion and dismissal of company leaders
When someone tells you about a leader being promoted or demoted, he or she probably wants to hear which side you’re on, or what your opinion is, which leader you prefer. At this time, they will collect opinions as well as information from you.
And as you know, the workplace is full of discord and factions. Unfortunately, your opinion causes others to attack and consider it as an enemy, then life will be difficult to be peaceful in the future. It is really “the mouth harms the body”, so you have to be sober lest you miss your words and be wronged.
Experience of “reconciliation” to master the situation when being played badly by colleagues, traps
“If you can’t kill the bumblebee with the first shot, it’s best not to touch it.” Therefore, silence is the best choice to avoid all bad luck in the workplace. Photo: Sohu
– Smiling, confident before all problems.
– Openly communicate with colleagues, not flattery, brag, but should only share hobbies, habits… to be easy to get along with. Should be kind to everyone, especially bad-playing colleagues, so that they will be less “provocative” as well as see their level and then “find it difficult to retreat”. Besides, if you help someone, you have to be very careful lest your kindness blindly harm your body.
– Talk privately with mean colleagues about false rumors, not needing to be clear about right and wrong, but only implicitly warn “I know it”.
– There are bad colleagues everywhere, so you have to be careful, divide tasks, clear deadlines, everyone works… So when problems arise, they can’t push responsibility, blame for you, or “squander” all the credit for yourself.
– Don’t compare yourself to others, never “win” with bad colleagues because they have many tricks to deal with you.
– When you hear a lot of bad things about yourself, you should also keep quiet, because getting involved in an argument is better than losing because those who are trying to put you down will make you tired and miserable.
– Avoid joining groups against bad colleagues. It is best to take precautions, not “attack”, because the working environment will be divided into factions, which will be very tiring and lose motivation because everyone has to be wary of each other. There is a saying: “If you can’t kill the wasp with the first shot, it’s best not to touch it”. The bad guy goes against the good culture in the office, is good at trickery and is very good at “blocking rumors”.
Life is yours, your tongue belongs to the world. You can’t control the thoughts and words of others, but you can keep your mind calm and your attitude silent before anything bad happens. Silence is not wrong, but to observe things.
According to Sohu
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