The child was suspended from school for playing with his phone during class, the mother immediately went to the store to do a SHOUL thing
Recently, a 13-year-old student (Henan province, China) was suspended by a teacher for 3 days for playing with his phone in class. When he heard the teacher announce, the boy’s mother was extremely surprised because he had never used a smartphone before. After a period of interrogation, the boy had to admit that he had hidden his mother, using 450 yuan (about 1.6 million dong) to buy an old smartphone. He wanted modern learning and entertainment facilities.
Right after that, the mother immediately went to the store, asked for a refund to buy the phone, but the store owner refused. The mother believes that selling phones to children is a wrong act and must have a plan to fix it. But the shop owner thinks that he is in business, does not force children to buy phones, buy and sell, so he is not wrong. In addition, the phone has been used for more than 2 months, now it is unreasonable to ask for a refund.
Seeing that her son was suspended from school, the mother rushed to the phone shop to make a fuss.
The two sides argued loudly without stopping. The son was very protective of his mother, even scolding the shopkeeper with bad words. In a fit of anger, the mother broke the glass display case for the phone. At this time, seeing his mother losing control, the boy showed fear and hugged his mother to stop him. Seeing that the situation was getting more and more serious, people reported to the police to promptly handle it.
The police went to the store to make a report and analyze it for mother and daughter to understand their mistake. After that, the mother must take responsibility and remedy the damage before the shameful act. The amount to compensate the shop owner is 300 yuan (about 1 million dong) to replace the broken glass.
An angry mother said to her son: “This is your fault, you have to bear the consequences. Please use the New Year’s money to compensate the shop, I will not help you pay the above amount.”
The mother even broke the store’s glass case.
People around talked about it, they thought that this mother was too hot-tempered, too angry. Moreover, my mother probably doesn’t care about me, so I bought a mobile phone for more than 2 months without even knowing it. The mother’s behavior towards the phone seller is also uncivilized, making them responsible is unreasonable.
Any parent puts the interests of their children first. Therefore, sometimes falling into some unexpected situations, they cannot control their emotions, leading to extreme actions. This is absolutely not good for the child’s personality development. In front of their children, parents should stay calm to come up with the best solution. Here are the benefits of being a parent in control of your mood and emotions.
– Help your child learn to control himself: Parents who stay calm in the face of bad situations will help their children look at them and learn from them. On the contrary, parents shouting and scolding will make children form hostile and antagonistic psychology. When children hold negative thoughts, there will be conflicts and conflicts with people around them.
– Help children develop thinking: If children are scolded often, they will become afraid of their parents. Some studies show that facing long-term fears can reduce brain size and inhibit thinking activity. Instead, if parents keep calm when punishing, it will help their children develop good thinking, a sense of right and wrong.
– Create a solid foundation for your child: When children make mistakes, parental restraint will help children understand that parents are always the ones who love them the most. However, parents also need to be strict to avoid the situation of children continuing to make mistakes. In addition, the parent’s behavior helps to build a strong bond with the child. Thereby, children can freely share with their family difficult problems in life.
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