Blaming his wife for only knowing how to eat without knowing what to do, until looking at the piece of paper on her husband’s desk, she shivered in panic
Marriage life Each person has a separate responsibility, but many husbands, because they make money, give themselves the right to look down on their partners, causing tension in the husband and wife relationship. And when patience runs out, women will fight back.
Thu Ngan (35 years old) said, when her first daughter was 3 years old, she gave birth to a second son. So Ngan decided to stay at home to take care of the children, not going back to the company anymore.
“It was my husband who asked his wife to quit his job to take care of his children so that he could focus on doing business, but his attitude was different from day one. Every time he gave his wife money to spend, he was hostile and annoyed like he was giving away. After that, everything big and small in the house, from being a housewife to taking care of two children, then taking care of her 70-year-old parents-in-law alone, my husband thinks it’s simple, effortless, and not as hard as it. the fact that he has to earn money to support the whole family, so when he is not satisfied with his wife, he turns to scold him for being a parasite and eating harm.” Ngan said.
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Many times Ngan shared that she wanted her husband to understand more about her wife’s hardships at home taking care of the children, but her husband ignored her. Not only that, Ngan’s husband also thinks that his wife is too happy to know what to do. He always thought that his wife did not make money, she had to do other work to make up for it and did not have the right to demand and speak up. Even if her biological parents are sick, Ngan wants to give money to visit her grandparents and ask for her husband’s opinion, waiting for him to withdraw money. Many times he scolded his wife, saying: ‘She doesn’t make money, and after living on her husband’s side, her parents won’t accept money from their son-in-law’.
Too many times being treated disrespectfully by her husband, he did not change his words after Ngan decided to rise up with actions.
That evening, Ngan’s husband came home from work to find the house empty, the rice and water not yet cooked, the 2 children sent to the neighbor who had not been bathed, washed, eaten or eaten. He angrily called his wife, but Ngan didn’t answer the phone. After that, he found on the table a piece of paper his wife wrote back: “I’m too tired to work for you for 5 years. I went on a vacation to relax for ten days”.
Ngan’s husband was very angry with his wife, intending to think that if his wife did not know such things, he would have to teach her a lesson. He will do everything himself to show her that life is still very good without her.
But taking care of the children, doing housework for 2 days, Ngan’s husband was listless because the two children were too naughty, just taking care of 3 meals a day for them and then coaxing them to eat each meal took an hour. Putting children to bed is also difficult, they scream and throw things, some ask their father to read stories, others make them sing. Waking up in the morning and swinging for half an hour to get the child out of the bedroom, Ngan’s husband almost had to stop all company work to take care of housework. However, he did not have time to eat until the meal, sometimes he temporarily ate a packet of instant noodles, sometimes he let his hungry stomach sleep with the child to relieve fatigue, not wanting to eat or drink.
“After exactly 3 days, my husband started frantically looking for hourly maids with high prices, but he couldn’t find anyone he liked. I heard from neighbors that I felt both sad and funny, but never mind. Because I figured if I didn’t let him know my wife’s suffering, I would never understand and sympathize with me.”this young wife shared again.
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After ten days of going out, Ngan happily dragged his suitcase home. Seeing his wife, Ngan’s husband’s face darkened, he immediately rushed out and yelled at her irresponsibly. Only then did Ngan speak: ‘If I was away like that, he could see through, how one day without this parasitic wife, home and children, his own life would be turned upside down. That way you will understand that I have to do so much work at home one day, am I happier than you, but you always say I’m useless. If you like, from tomorrow you and I will change roles, I go to work, you stay at home to take care of the children and housework, you will see how happy it is to live at home.” Ngan said.
Ngan’s husband froze in front of every word his wife said. In fact, the few days he stayed at home to take care of his children were too exhausting, in his heart he partly understood the hardships of his wife. Right after that, he had to lower his voice to make peace with Ngan. Since then, he has also learned to share housework with his wife.
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