I cried and when I was about to go to the operating table, I decided to leave
Ngoc Hang Tea known as Miss Dat Mui, Top 10 Vietnamese supermodel 2010, 1st runner-up Miss International Vietnam 2011.
In addition, she has also forayed into the fields of film and business. After a period of operation, Tra Ngoc Hang paused her career to give birth to a child. Currently, Tra Ngoc Hang is ready to return to artistic activities after spending a lot of time taking care of her 4-year-old daughter, Sophia.
At this week’s Chat program with her mother, Tra Ngoc Hang talked about her pregnancy and being a single mother.
I was about to go to the operating table when I decided to leave
The time away from the peak of my career to be a single mother was really tough for me.
When I heard about my pregnancy, I was planning to go to the US to study fashion design, after just sending my family a large amount of money. All the plans were almost unfinished, so I had to try all 7 pregnancy tests before accepting the truth in anxiety.
I had just broken up with my boyfriend of 3 months at that time. When I found out I was pregnant, I didn’t feel happy, but more worried. I have just put all my money into taking care of my family, so I don’t know how I will have to have a baby and then take care of it.
I decided to go back to Vietnam and go for a prenatal check-up, the doctor said it’s been more than 3 months. I told my ex, he said whatever I wanted, he could do whatever he wanted.
Really, now that I repeat, I also have to apologize to her because there was a time when I was about to leave her. My boyfriend and I even went to the hospital to have an abortion.
After talking with the doctor, I cried and when I was about to go to the operating table, I decided to leave. When I was more than 6 months pregnant, I had an argument with my boyfriend. I was so depressed that I went to the hospital with the intention of giving up my baby again.
At this time, the doctor told me that if I aborted the pregnancy, both mother and child would die, I went home again. That is the sin that I agonize over to this day.
I know sharing like this will make her sad to look back later, but I hope she will understand the feeling and the process of why I thought about that problem.
I have not cried yet, I have cried, tears keep falling
I hid my pregnancy for 7 months. I sent the housekeeper back to my hometown to be alone, not accepting shows.
It was not until March 8 that I informed my family and was surprised by my mother’s open and welcoming response, which was very difficult. This helps me relax and enjoy the journey of motherhood with peace of mind.
My birth process was fortunate, quite smooth, but that was only the beginning of a series of difficult days behind.
After the birth, my baby had lungs and yellow skin, so he had to stay in the hospital. The baby also has asthma and stomach disease. I take my children to the hospital continuously, making it a habit, every 2 to 3 days. I have not cried yet, I have cried, tears keep falling.
Every few days, my child is tired and has to go to the hospital. At only 1 year old, my child knew how to put a strap on his face, making me feel like my gut was broken. Until the age of 3, the baby stabilizes his health.
It’s so hard, but in the journey of raising children, I never wanted to give up, but only wished why I didn’t give birth earlier.
Remembering my ex-boyfriend, it’s true that I can’t avoid moments of heartbreak and tears.
That person said he wanted to share and take responsibility for the child, but I didn’t like it. Many friends who are lawyers also told me that I should let my children take the father’s last name to benefit them later, but I did not do that. When I have decided to keep the child, the child is my child.
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