Brother promised to give 100 million dong but three years have not seen anything

I am a third year student. Three years ago, I packed my bags from my hometown to Saigon to study at university, my brother and wife here called to stay, but I chose to rent a room near him, work part-time to pay for my studies. My parents in the countryside did not have money for me to study, so I had to take care of everything myself. I just thought simple, close brothers would be good but this is wrong.

Your family has a three-year-old child who is studying in preschool, whenever you need him to call me for help, when doing housework, sometimes going to the market, when picking up children for him. You call all the time, no matter if I’m free. At first, I was respectful and still helped, but after seeing that my sister-in-law didn’t say anything, it affected my part-time work, so I refused. It was difficult to refuse in many cases when he called urgently such as picking up the baby from school, it was raining to get clothes, and a lot of errands. I was about to move in, but my sister-in-law was pregnant, and he begged me to stay. Love you, I continue to help.

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When my sister-in-law was seven months pregnant, she quit her job at home, from here on I understand why my brother is so hard. She holds her phone to watch full-length movies all the time, she hardly does housework. My brother works at the company and then comes home tired and yells at me, dare not talk about his wife, pampering his wife very much. Because I help him, it affects my part-time job, not enough to cover my life, and I have to borrow money for school fees. I told him, he said he would help me more and he would give me 100 million dong, he said yes, rest assured.

Then my sister-in-law gave birth, I went to the market early in the morning and then returned to sunbathe for the baby, cook for my sister-in-law, wash diapers, and clean the house. I don’t understand why she was born until the fourth month and still abstained, doing nothing. The newborn baby spends most of the time sleeping, the diapers are dry but she doesn’t take them in the rain, so her brother has to call me to pick them up. I feel very upset. I value brotherly friendship, I suffer for myself. Now I also need a motorbike and a computer to go to work. The amount of money you promised is not mentioned, you must have forgotten, should I ask?

Han

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