The more you let go, the richer you become
There is a very subtle line in “Forrest Gump”:
“I don’t think that the more mentally mature a person becomes, the more tolerant a person becomes and can easily accept anything.
Instead, I think it’s a gradual process of giving up. Know what’s important to you, what to let go of, live a simple life.”
So what is “Simple”?
Simplicity means simplifying things, both internally and externally. Do not let your emotions and thoughts be affected or dominated by other factors. Mind is not confused, live a free and free life.
When people reach middle age, people gradually see what is true and what is false, and gradually realize the truth of life.
The rest of life, not thinking too much, not being amorous is the highest lifestyle.
TREATMENT TO ONE PEOPLE SO GOOD MEANS YOU HAVE LOST.
I thought that if I treated others well, they would treat me well in return.
But in real life, there are people who don’t just want to take all your good stuff. They even ask you too much, but do not want to spend half a cent on you.
I thought that if I were kind to people, kind to life, people would be grateful to me.
But when you reach a certain age, you will understand that kindness is ultimately just “voluntary self”.
Being too kind to someone means you’ve already lost. In life, how much sincerity, how much mutual love? In this life, not everyone has gratitude, living too kind, the loser in the end is yourself.
For the rest of your life, keep a little to yourself. A little sincerity, a little enthusiasm, a little love. Always think things through carefully before acting, don’t give your love to the wrong person.
DON’T TRY TO LOOK FOR PEOPLE WHO DON’T LIKE YOU.
Any of us most of us have moments like this in our lives.
When you take the wrong road, you will think that there is definitely an exit ahead. But in the end, you will never admit that you have reached a dead end.
When you do something wrong, you comfort yourself by saying: “It’s okay, everyone makes mistakes sometimes”. But in the end, you realize that your mistake cannot be undone.
When you love the wrong person, you think that as long as you are wholeheartedly kind to them, you will definitely be able to convert them. But in the end, the person who suffers the most is you.
There is a very true saying:
“What’s broken is broken. Regret can’t change the situation. Instead of holding it to gnaw the pain, forcefully throw it away and say goodbye.”
You must remember that, when you need to turn around, don’t wait. When you need to let go, don’t hesitate, even for a moment. All human misfortunes are caused by unwillingness and unwillingness to come out. What is left in the end is just piled up damage.
When the moon is full, it will wane, when the water is full, it will overflow, the flowers will bloom and die, and the people who are full of love will fall. Only with strong determination and timely prevention of losses can we go further, live a lighter and more peaceful life.
NO ONE IN THIS WORLD REALLY UNDERSTANDS YOU.
I once heard a very real saying that goes like this:
“When I reach middle age, I have to learn to carry my own umbrella when I leave the house, because no one will come to pick me up in the rain.”
Indeed, have you ever noticed that the people around you all start to take better care of themselves as they get older?
Everyone lives their own life. Eat your own sadness, carry your own thoughts, find your own way out.
Fewer and fewer people care about your recent mood. Fewer and fewer people care how your life is lately.
So never expect others to understand you. Life has thousands of thousands of hardships, we also have to learn how to overcome it.
Life is not always the way you want it to be. One day, when you look back, you will see: Those years of hardship and sorrow were all just you gritting your teeth and walking.
Going beyond half of human life, we need to learn to become more quiet. Narrow social relationships, stop relying on others.
The sweetness and bitterness in life only when you taste it yourself, you can fully absorb its flavors.
The way of life, walk by yourself step by step. What can really protect you is the choices you make in your life.
DON’T MANAGE OTHER PEOPLE’S STORY.
There is a foreign proverb: “The stars in the dense sky can still be seen, but the dirt on the face cannot be seen.” The difference between people often lies here.
There are people who only know how to criticize and blame others without ever looking back at themselves. But there are people who always find the root cause when there is a problem, starting with themselves.
People who only like to blame others when things don’t go their way, they will live a life of resentment.
And those who start to find the cause in themselves will become more and more elite..
The scariest people’s lives are not the poor, but those who always like to interfere in other people’s lives, but their own life is a mess.
Not talking bad about others behind their backs and not disagreeing about other people’s families is the most basic cultivation of a human being.
Not interfering in other people’s lives, not just pointing out other people’s private affairs is the highest self-discipline of adults.
Always remember: those who understand others are wise, those who know themselves are intelligent.
DON’T EXPECT OVER OTHER PEOPLE.
Have you ever wondered why people often feel unhappy?
People who don’t feel happy are often because: They hold on to too much, take everything too seriously, or cling to it and won’t let go.
Sometimes, we overestimate people, overestimate the longevity of a relationship.
As the years went by, some of the former acquaintances became strangers. We are no longer in contact. The previous intimacy was just that.
You have overestimated your place in the hearts of others, and they have underestimated your importance in yours.
The higher the expectation, the more disappointment, the higher the expectation, the less will be received.
Don’t expect too much from your partner, because no one treats you well, because of course they should.
Don’t expect too much from your children, they come for you but not just for you.
Don’t expect too much from friends, people come and go in this life, which is already a rule.
Don’t take yourself too seriously, don’t overestimate feelings and relationships. If you don’t have high expectations, you won’t be disappointed.
END
The more a person lets go of things, the richer he becomes.
Letting go of ego, we can live a better life. Letting go of desires, we can find ourselves. Letting go of pain, we can be reborn. Letting go of our distractions, we can live freely.
As the saying goes: “Life is not inherently complicated, it’s all about people bothering themselves”.
Grief and trouble are just part of life. The ups and downs are just a phase of life.
If you always keep sadness in your heart, your whole life will be like autumn, always sad and gloomy.
Thinking too much can ruin your mood. The mood is too bad, will ruin life. If you don’t live well, you will ruin your whole life.
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