Hurt yourself with ambiguous relationships

When she registered on the dating app, she expressed that she was looking for non-binding relationships, a lot of single men messaged her and she befriended a few random people.

She admits that she is very… a woman and also has very normal needs. She wants to find the intense feelings of love again, but she doesn’t want the relationship to be too deep. So, I think if I go back and forth with a married man, I won’t be tied down. From their side, she guessed that, when a man is married, having a wife, children and property will prevent them from being too in love with her. And you were right. They are not too attached to her, neither are she.

She was very careful with the men she met. She wanted to make sure they didn’t want to leave their wives or threaten all that they had built together.

Before meeting a man, she would ask, “Why am I doing this? Make sure that all he wants from you is just sex, not attachment. long-term binding”.

Among the people she met, there was a man whose wife had tacitly agreed to let him have a mistress because she was no longer interested in sex. For all three people, to some extent, they get what they need without having to give up what they want.

She finds herself like many other single women, having sex outside of marriage is the way she cannot become a responsible wife and mother. Adultery is simply an adventure.

She once admired a man when he was holding a beer bottle, his neat vest sleeves rolled up to reveal an extremely impressive tattoo. On the night that she saw all the tattoos, she and I drank, listened to 80s music, and couldn’t leave. They also talked to each other a lot.

She asked him, “What if you told this secret to your wife?”. He didn’t need a second to think: “Let’s just look at the facts, okay? I need her and the kids, but I also need the things that only you can give me. older brother”.

But then he finally had to admit: “I didn’t want to hurt her. She gave up her job to stay at home with the kids. She never stopped looking for what she wanted to do with her.” If I tell her this secret, she’ll probably die of hurt. We don’t confess the truth, that doesn’t mean we’re lying, right?” Finally he decided: “Honey, it’s better to keep quiet”.

In fact, I’ve never convinced any lover that he should be honest about what he’s doing. She just made such an assumption. But most of them present themselves as kind men. They have an illicit relationship with her, but they are still responsible husbands and fathers.

There are times when she feels worried about her lifestyle. Physical intimacy with other men is essential to her health and well-being. But at any time, she can be the cause of a family falling apart. She and the man with the tattoo on her arm only spend the night together a few times a year. They talk on the phone more often. She never felt the need to possess, she was just curious and happy to be with him.

However, after a few years, she found herself no longer feeling anything when she was with him. Meanwhile, she clearly felt the deep affection he had for his wife. Although there is almost no physical attraction between them, their bond is nothing in the world that can be broken.

After all the unnamed love affairs, she realized that she had lived too carelessly and irresponsibly to herself. For many years, she succumbed to lust and threw herself into temptation. The only good thing is that she hasn’t ruined the marriage of any man she’s ever dated.

After breaking up with the man with the tattoo on her arm, she decided to close her heart for a while, find herself a full-time job and start thinking about a serious and stable relationship.

According to Dan Tri