Give your parents a chance to correct their mistakes, and give them a chance

Recently, the case of male students from Hanoi – Amsterdam High School for the Gifted caused a stir in public opinion. Also from here, many views revolve around teaching children or how to behave and solve problems between children and children parents is up for debate.

Many comments: “Children, give parents the opportunity to correct their mistakes, and also give themselves a chance.”

A sad story happened that made everyone startle thinking about the thoughts of children carrying many emotions.

Not only the case of male students from Hanoi – Amsterdam High School for the Gifted, but before that, there were many sad stories when children did not have time to confess to their parents and did foolish things.

When there is a conflict or anger, the children, because they have been repressed for a long time, behave unexpectedly, making their parents – who stay still probably never calm down. The story of a 10th grade male student recently, reminds us of a similar case in China that once made public opinion unceasingly.

On Lupu Bridge, across the Huangpu River in Shanghai, China, the camera captured the heartbreaking scene of the boy passing away. The incident happened so quickly that the mother did not have any opportunity to explain and negotiate with her child.

In the last minutes of the video, the image of a mother who can only cry is the last thing left. A 17-year-old student, because of a conflict with his friends, made his mother unable to control his words, and the unthinkable happened.

Image of a mother running after her child at Lu Pho Bridge, China. (Photo: Sina)

Or before, the diary of a 14-year-old boy who chose to leave, also made parents ponder:

“When I was in 6th grade, I had my first love, my mother found out that I liked N., she read the pieces of letters on the desk drawer N. wrote, she went to N.’s house and asked N.’s parents to review how to raise their children. .

I can’t remember how my first love ended. Only after that, the two never looked at each other again even though they were in the same class until high school.

Later, my mother asked why I was so far away from her, why didn’t I confide in her? Why? Since I already know so much, I never have the right to know anything more.”

Children also need their own space.

From the above cases, many people ask the question, why the children do not give their parents any chance to correct their mistakes but find the most foolish thing on their own.

Simply, because the children are young, their thoughts are not really mature, and it is difficult to control their emotions, so they need their parents to talk, share, and teach. Therefore, parents also have to learn a lot to be able to share with their children, helping them to feel fully and without error the love of their parents.

Children, give parents a chance to correct their mistakes.

Many people believe that young people also need to give their parents the opportunity to correct their mistakes, which is how they give themselves more opportunities to live, develop, and discover the wonderful things of this life.

Never think that parents must know and understand everything. A simple saying in the movie Reply 1988 very well reflects this: “Dad is not just born to be a father, he is also a father for the first time.” Reading and thinking, I see that living in this world is the hardest thing to be a father and mother.

The saying in the movie made many people heartbroken. (Photo: Screenshot of the movie Reply 1988)

Not everyone is born with experience as a parent, so they also need to learn and have the opportunity to correct their mistakes. For example, children are at fault, parents are generous to forgive or swallow tears inward to shoulder and correct for their children.

So why don’t children try to give their parents a chance to understand and correct themselves when things go wrong.

By Sports and Culture