The third person regrets adultery, tramples on all marriages with mistresses

He was my boss at that time, also had a wife and two children. Because of my cold marriage, I feel like I need a man to warm my heart. My job is often close to my boss. The boss is very encouraging, sharing, creating conditions… so in the end I feel that I love my boss all the time.

Our relationship is from both sides, the boss also reciprocates my feelings, sometimes I feel that he is the one to start first.

He always said he loved me more than anything, and he proved it. He took the initiative to divorce his wife, carefully arranged child support, then bought a house to live with me, urging me to divorce. I also overcame all the whispers behind my back, overcame all the rumors, to come to you. At that time, I felt that he was my happiness, so I tried to the end.

After I broke up with my husband, he completed the divorce, we moved on the main road to live together in the house he just bought. Hurts for many sides were there, the consequences of our love were still there, but all of that no longer bothered me when we were finally together.

The thing that makes me respect him the most is that the two of us have not yet completed the marriage registration procedure, but when buying a house, the papers he left me in my name. He said it was my collateral. He loves me and will definitely not change his mind, but if something happens in the future, the house will still be mine, ensuring my future. I was really touched by what he gave me, because it was a big asset.

We’ve lived together for nearly 10 years, going through many levels and storms, not just pink.

I feel more and more that he is a difficult person, and forces people to live with me. What he was angry about never said, what was not satisfied also kept for a month, taciturn until I had to ask even “understand it myself”.

I became inhibited in the marriage so. Many times I told him not to pressure me, this life is tiring enough. He retorted and said that maybe we were wrong to choose each other despite everything, saying that the two were not suitable. I said it didn’t fit, then left, he refused, and made up again.

To be honest, many times I wanted to give up on him to run out and immerse myself in the life out there, how free and beautiful it is. Since I married him, I have to stay at home all the time and he is still not satisfied. He is difficult, judgmental, jealous, holds his wife terribly. Wherever I go, whatever I do, I have to ask for permission and notice. Sometimes I think, it’s better to be like with my ex-husband, everyone does what everyone does, no one has any idea, maybe it’s better. By the way, he doesn’t leave me any air to breathe, he accepts everything I do, and likes to be in control.

I was originally the one who said it could be done, but now I’m stuck in this marriage, all because of the house you bought me. If I leave him, the house will still belong to me, but I don’t want to get the reputation that I plan to come to him for the sake of property and then leave. You gave me the house, but took away my freedom. I am stuck and feel very regretful. What do I have to do now?

According to Dan Tri