“A very un-pedagogical punishment for students, an insult”
Editor Hoai Anh is known to be a rather private person, she does not participate in debates and often has a very clever way of answering, not offending anyone. But perhaps due to the compassion of a mother, recently on her personal page, Editor Hoai Anh posted a letter expressing his feelings after many incidents happened to students. was sitting on the school chair recently.
Editor Hoai Anh currently has 1 daughter
Hoai Anh said that in the past time, when receiving a series of negative information related to students in both Hanoi and Ho Chi Minh City. Ho Chi Minh, she felt extremely anxious and confused. Standing from the perspective of a mother, Hoai Anh couldn’t help but feel sad and worried, and she also recalled the “painful” incident that happened to her child when she was only in 1st grade.
“I always carry optimistic beliefs that seem to be unchanged, that is, every parent definitely loves their children, every teacher loves their students. But the incidents made me shake my faith too much! Not yet! I have never felt so sad, impatient, worried and loved for you as I do now.In those buildings, are small families, with parents, mothers and children, and certainly not a few. Among them, there is still the thought that they have full control over their children.In schools, it is the teachers who interact and teach the children every day.
As long as there is a lack of pedagogical standards, there will be cases like “forcing my children to eat food that have been thrown in the trash”, or like my own children’s story: she punished him for writing. The writing is not beautiful by forcing the child to walk alone to stand in the middle of another class, in front of teachers, unfamiliar friends, between eyes full of strangers and ridicule, in the midst of loneliness to the end…
A very non-pedagogical form of student punishment, if not harshly an insult. It is more deplorable when this penalty occurs not only once. It’s very sad that at that time, I was only in 1st grade, toddling into a new school with all the surprise, curiosity, excitement but also full of apprehension and feeling that I was missing my mother and my aunts. Kindergarten is always caring! Fortunately, during the following school years, I met loving homeroom teachers!”.
She is both a mother, a sister, and a companion for her daughter
Hoai Anh said that in the pedagogical environment, a very non-pedagogical thing happened to his child. Luckily, the little girl told her mother everything, and her mother shared and fixed it.
“Going back to the heartbreaking incidents that just happened, I really wondered why the incidents happened in a row? I didn’t want to put it on Facebook, but then the incidents continued. , only a very short time apart, but surely, the children who have this unfortunate action more or less read, heard, and knew information about the heartbreaking stories of their friends before. They do not see the suffering of the other friends’ parents, do not see the pity and sadness of society for friends who have had moments of impulsiveness, to have a minute to reflect and stop acting. own arrogance.
Isn’t the public opinion, the media, the mournful sharing of all of us on Facebook… still not enough to help, to wake up the children? So what can help them, prevent the next heartbreaking incident from happening in the future?
Perhaps none other than those who are fathers and mothers, right now, right now, don’t delay one more second, take the initiative to come to your child, ask questions and talk to them, See if your children’s school days are happy days, show your love in words, and don’t forget to apologize if in the past time, parents themselves feel that they have done something wrong with their children! It can be difficult to say sorry, even more difficult when it is an apology from a parent to a child. But, when you have the desire and strive to be great parents, surely, the happiest people are your children!
And to be great parents who understand, share, know how to put their children’s joys and sorrows ahead of their own expectations and face, and know how to be ready to admit their mistakes, father Mother also has to learn and practice a lot, that’s the process of a lifetime, until her hair turns gray. The lessons and training are extremely difficult that not everyone can achieve, so why give out so many topics for the children? For me, knowing how to live with love and dedication but not weak and sad; tactful but forthright without deceit; Being strong, rational but not cruel, are the things that are really hard to train in a person.” Editor Hoai Anh expressed his opinion.
This point of view of Hoai Anh received a lot of sympathy from fathers and mothers. On her part, she also talked about situations where she and her daughter shared and cared for each other.
“As for my little daughter, I never forget to say thank you when she helps me with something. A hair that is not tied tightly to her eyes also makes me impatient, I have to tie it up myself. A hug hugs you right when you are extremely busy, whispering very quickly in your ear: “I love you the most in life!”, or moments of playful conversation between mother and daughter, so that we can receive On my face today, why are these 2 pimples emerging, why my new tooth friend has come up but my old tooth friend still hasn’t left are my happy worries! It’s when I’m busy engrossed in something, suddenly there’s warmth next to me.It’s a little girl who came to me and hugged me, whispering back: “I love you so much, Mom. !”. Those are the times when my children actively come to me to brush my mother’s hair. Then, parents, let’s think back, how long has it been, I forgot to give you a hug, mom and dad! “.
The words of BTV Hoai Anh received thousands of interactions. Along with that, the photo she took with her daughter in a dress with the same color tone of both has made netizens constantly compliment.
BTV Hoai Anh, born in 1980, is known as a veteran editor of Vietnam Television at the same time as BTV Van Anh and Editor Quang Minh.
Hoai Anh has a remarkable Southern accent and is the first Southerner to host the program “News” at 19:00 on VTV1, which is considered a new breakthrough of the national television station. After retiring from the News Department, Editor Hoai Anh transferred to the Culture Department of Vietnam Television. Here, in addition to being a professional host, in real life, she is also known as an extremely stylish person with a bit of artistic blood. Regularly posting on his personal page street style photos and not only that, but Hoai Anh’s point of view is also well received and agreed by the audience.
Hoai Anh rarely shared about her married life after marriage, but on the contrary, she and her only daughter often took pictures and appeared together on social networks. For her, her daughter is seen as pride.
at Blogtuan.info – Source: Afamily.vn – Read the original article here
