My wife decided to donate her kidney to me, but listening to the conversation between her and her biological mother, I am infinitely sad
Three months ago, I felt tired and exhausted, so I went to the doctor and painfully discovered that I had kidney disease. After a few months of treatment, the doctor told me that I needed a kidney donor to maintain a normal life.
My family knows about it and is very worried and sad. Parents get old in just a few nights. Where can I find someone who can donate my kidney? My parents are old, my sister is also getting married again raising children…
In the meantime, my wife suddenly announced that she would donate her kidney to her husband. Wife said her health is very good, donating a kidney is okay. We already have a son, it’s okay not to have another baby later. She just wants me to live a long time with my wife and children.
My parents burst into tears because they were touched and grateful to their daughter-in-law. I couldn’t hold back my tears either. My wife and I have been married for 6 years now, we have a 4 year old boy year old.
Two days ago, late at night, I struggled to sleep, got up to find my wife and found her standing on the balcony talking on the phone. Listening to the content, I know that the wife is talking to her biological mother about donating my kidney.
I think the mother-in-law advised her daughter not to do that. Putting myself in her place, I totally understand. But my wife’s explanation then left me dumbfounded:
“It’s me who is at fault for him, mother. I married him not because of love, until now we have lived together for so many years, but my heart can’t be moved. For me, everything is just a responsibility. But he is. He’s too kind, tolerant and caring for me without calculating anything. I feel like I owe him.”
It is important for husband and wife to live together to have feelings. Over the years, I thought I had a perfect marriagewho knows that my wife has been living with me until now, just because of responsibility.
I am very sad but also worried, will she ever pay off my debt, meet someone else her wife really loves, will she leave? Please put yourself in my position and try to help me answer whether I should let my wife donate my kidney again?
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