Powerful on the pitch, few people know that former SEA Games champion Van Thi Thanh also did this to overcome post-divorce sadness.
Playing as a winger, Van Thi Thanh has many years of dedication to the Vietnamese women’s football team. Possessing a petite appearance and lovely face, she is nicknamed “the pearl” of Vietnamese football. At the 22nd SEA Games at home, in the first major tournament of her career, Van Thi Thanh scored the decisive goal to help the national women’s team get the gold medal. She received the Golden Ball title in 2003, the Silver Ball in 2005 and was named in the top 10 typical sports athletes in 2003 and 2005.
Considering football as a reason to live, in 2010, the “pearl” of Vietnamese football took a bold step when turning to coaching. A year later, Van Thi Thanh decided to put aside her passion to start a family. It seems that God always wants to challenge the elite. After 6 years of living together and having a beautiful son, she and her husband decided to go their separate ways.
Strong and fierce on the field, but in real life Van Thi Thanh is a gentle and feminine girl. After the divorce, she faced dozens of unnamed fears: fear of personal matters affecting both parents, fear of outsiders ridiculing her broken marriage and fear of a child not old enough to witness the scene. separated parents. Faced with sadness and fear, Van Thi Thanh could only run to the bridge, shouting loudly to release the heavy rock in her heart.
Admittedly spending her youth trying for love, when that love was no longer around, Van Thi Thanh seemed to lose a part of herself. Unable to share with anyone, she did not avoid it, but chose to face her sadness. Thanh confided that he used to bury himself in sad songs and psychological films so that his emotions could reach a tipping point and change. The sadness also gradually subsided in her with the steadfast thought “everything will pass slowly”.
In Van Thi Thanh, being sad and crying after stepping out of marriage is like a woman’s instinct. However, after those moments, the bravery of a top athlete in her seemed to rise. She thought about her son, thinking about the football career that was still open to her. Van Thi Thanh quickly revived her spirit, she “thought about how many good things there are in life”, and there are other “matches” of life waiting for her ahead. If she had the courage to face it, she could win, but if she continued to dodge, she would definitely be the loser.
The story was first told at the exit talk show by former player Van Thi Thanh as an answer for those who are still doubting their strength in the face of post-marital turmoil. Once you have the courage to accept and face difficulties, you yourself have won half of the victory.
Watch in full Talkshow Exit on FPT Play at 9 pm on Friday, May 20 to follow the journey out of the post-divorce maze of former player Van Thi Thanh. For more information, please contact hotline 19006600.
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