Parents dragging their children to commit suicide is a callous act

Heartbreaking ending when parents drag their children along commit suicide

Recently, it may be due to family conflicts, deadlock in life … many people can’t stand it and have found death. But what is more painful is that many people still intend to leave this world with their innocent children, their biological children.

Around 6 pm on May 27, people crossing the Hao Hao bridge (Hai Nhan commune, Nghi Son town, Thanh Hoa province) discovered three mothers and children jumping from the bridge. commit suicide. Then this person shouted loudly for people to come to help. While all three were struggling, fortunately, people and employees of Nghi Son Environmental Company promptly saved their lives. The reason why the woman jumps from the bridge may be a conflict with her husband.

Also in May 2022, in Cam Giang district, Hai Duong, the rescue force found the body of a woman who is a kindergarten teacher and 2 small children on Thai Binh river downstream from the suspected location. Mother and daughter fell into the river about 1km. The cause of the case is being further clarified, but according to initial conjecture, it may partly stem from a husband and wife conflict leading to commit suicide.

Before that, in January 2021, in Tan Chau district, Tay Ninh province, a similar incident happened when a mother hugged two children and jumped into the canal. commit suicide. In 2019, in Tien Lang district, Hai Phong, a mother hugged her two children and jumped to death, but one of the two children escaped…

Exchange with Reporter Dan VietHa Dinh Bon, former Director of the Legal Department (Ministry of Labour, Invalids and Social Affairs) and currently Vice Chairman of the Vietnam Association for the Protection of Children’s Rights, said that in fact, there have been a number of cases where parents commit suicide with their children. female. They commit suicide due to many reasons, possibly due to dire circumstances in life, debt, psychological instability…

“There are many subjective and objective causes such as mental disturbances, pressure in life, economic conditions, family conflicts that are difficult to resolve, debt pressure, etc., leading to negative thinking. Before committing suicide, they also think that they don’t want their wife and children or husband and children to suffer or have to settle debts. counted as murder, even if that person is his or her own child or wife…”, Mr. Bon stated.

Parents bring their children commit suicide: Despair leads to heartless acts of crime

Vice President of the Vietnam Association for the Protection of Children’s Rights emphasized that the law prohibits all acts of taking other people’s lives, which is murder. Human life is the most invaluable asset protected by law, the right to life is an inviolable sacred right, but some people are deprived of it.

“There are many cases of young children being taken from their lives in a very heartbreaking way. It is the parents who simply understand that it is better to die, obviously that behavior must be condemned. For this situation to happen, there are reasons for this. responsibilities of mass organizations and organizations, including state agencies, where they live, and where they work.It is possible for each person to have a distraction that is not detected and handled in a timely manner. Consciousness education …”, Mr. Bon said.

Agree with the above, discuss with Reporter Dan Viet, Mr. Nguyen Dinh Son, psychologist, Hanoi Association of Educational Psychology, said that families who drag their children to sacrifice themselves because they think that no one can replace parents who can give their children a good future. so this action comes from a false love. Peaks in family strife, financial or life stalemate cause some parents to drag their children along. commit suicide – a desperation that leads to a callous, criminal act.

“They need to know that every child has the right to live and decide on his or her own life. That’s why a child ran away from his mother in the mother’s bridge jump in Tien Lang, Hai Phong not long ago.” , Mr. Son stated.

Mr. Son said that there are 3 moods that often occur when commit suicide: The first is that boredom loneliness is often expressed by a lack of a sense of connection. Next is emptiness, showing lack of confidence in life as a dead end and finally boredom leading to despair without motivation to live. Another traumatic feeling when in a state of blind jealousy also causes them to act impulsively.

“These parents often face the danger of boredom and want to escape to alleviate their own pain when their self-esteem is extremely low. They have given up on themselves to beat themselves up. I don’t want to live and decided that no one deserves to take good care of my children,” Mr. Son said.

Mr. Son offered a solution, if relatives or friends can share to those who have negative thoughts the message: “Especially when life becomes difficult, we want you to keep a positive attitude, believe Believe in the good things about yourself and be kind to yourself and because your child’s life depends on it. It’s not the end of the world yet!”

The psychology of the whole family is often complicated: The famous movie Downfall has a segment about German Propaganda Minister Joseph Goebbels in World War II, Nazi Germany collapsed, his wife fully performed. enough developments in this psychological state – True to the role of a mother who loves her child endlessly, who poisoned her child before she and her husband commit suicide. This is a video that depicts that happening most clearly,” said Mr. Son.

From cases where parents bring their children along commit suicideAccording to Mr. Ha Dinh Bon, there is a need for a team of psychological counselors, but this force is lacking in Vietnam and many people are not fully aware. So we also have to advise ourselves. Advice on how to control anger, limit impulsiveness, control emotions to handle properly. That service has not yet thrived in Vietnam.

“If someone in mind wants to commit suicide or always thinking about the risk of being threatened, need to see a psychologist, psychotherapist to clear the mind. If in terms of material conditions, ask agencies and organizations to jointly support, determine debt is still owed, but life is important because only living can make material wealth again.

The state does not take away people’s lives due to excessive debt, fraudulent borrowing, and will be handled. If they are explained, counseled on psychosocial, legal, and encouraged the family to share, it’s not that bad. The State has also gradually established a social work center and a legal aid center, but it still cannot. This happens in every person, in every family, so it is difficult to reveal it to the outside. It must be prevented by educating all citizens to value their lives. Everyone should remember that life is the most important,” added Mr.