Netizens stirred with the phrase “sexy look” in the Code of Anti-Sexual Harassment

The draft Code of Conduct to prevent sexual harassment at work is creating a “fever” on social networks. The reason is that the Code of Conduct defines non-verbal sexual harassment including using body language, making erotic looks, blinking repeatedly, making indecent expressions, using finger gestures, etc.

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“Let me ask about the erotic look. Where I work, there are girls who dress very sexy: skirts above the pillow; Short-sleeve, wide-collar shirt. They work in the project department, or communicate, meet with customers to negotiate and bring contracts to the company. The girls are very pretty, with the addition of their clothes, it’s hard for the men in the company to take their eyes off them. So now we can’t see you? Are we harassing or are they being harassed by these girls?”.

“I spent a large amount of money studying the art of communication. It is taught that when conversing with others, try to listen attentively, look them in the eye, and sometimes pretend to touch them to increase connection and show receptivity. I very effectively practice what I learn. But it turns out, I’ve sexually harassed countless people for a long time.”

“Where I work, there is a handsome guy with a perfect body, six pack abs. Once I met him in the elevator, I reminded him: “You seem to have forgotten to button the top two collar buttons?”. The guy was full of surprise, looked at me and replied: “I left it like that, I installed all the old buttons, sister, it’s so hometown!”. So from now on, when I meet him, I must look up at the ceiling, look at the floor or close my eyes to be an innocent person!”…

Hundreds of funny situations were told by “netizens” to determine whether they were “sinners” of sexual harassment according to new criteria.

“Netizens” argue about erotic standards

But the trend, the “beautiful” standard in terms of form – many people will agree with me now is very extreme. In a nutshell, it’s a combination of appearance that gives a person’s outstanding, attractive and different impression at first sight.

Except for those with a natural beauty, it is impossible not to admit that people today are very clever to have such an appearance. No one wants to be ugly or even as beautiful as other people. They have to be more beautiful, more attractive, thereby maximizing their physical advantage in the direction of bad, hiding good showing off.

Wearing a shirt and pants so that you can turn on those long legs, sexy neck straps, wide muscular chest, muscular muscles… is always too easy. Personally, I am also extremely confused. To be honest, I really like to see… beautiful boys and… pretty girls. Sometimes I look at them with passion. Who never did!

I have a very close friend who has been playing since childhood. He has a lip that is always… wet due to his habit of licking his lips – an expression that he was once accused by a girl… of “looking very erotic”. She gazed at him passionately and fell in love with him because those lips, to her own, were very seductive.

Another friend of mine has a habit of blinking incessantly. Those who do not understand this habit in him often think of him as an unreliable person, a liar (the folk still have the saying “lie without blinking” to condemn a liar with a serious degree, because lying is often… blink of an eye).

But that is only the immediate concern. The bigger worry is that then, which agency will monitor, evaluate, and evaluate to convict a pair of eyes that are detected … looking erotic, blinking continuously or body language has inappropriate or erotic expressions. . In fact, I am very worried about myself, worried about how the two friends will live here, if the Official Code is issued.

We must admit to each other, each person’s gaze and gaze are “unique”, cannot be imitated by anyone and it is more difficult to save evidence. The same goes for other body language expressions.

“She looks at me like this!”, “He gives me the impression that you are an indecent person, his expression is like this” – those “hey” are hard to match with “this” like “ suffering master” is revealed.

Not only at the National Assembly, on social networks and even at the drinking table, people are also discussing, both humorously and seriously, around the ideas of the Code of Conduct to prevent sexual harassment.

According to professional drafting agencies, the Code is not a legal document, so it is not mandatory to apply, but it is recommended to apply in all types of enterprises in the public and private sectors, in the form of internal regulations. labor or specified in the Appendix to “clean” the working environment.

I would like to add that, if any unit applies it, there should be more clear and specific instructions so that the application does not interfere with its employees. Not to mention, creating endless lawsuits and controversies, even the accused can denounce the opponent for humiliation when claiming to be innocent of sexual harassment…

Swell (District 11, HCMC)

According to www.phunuonline.com.vn