Renowned as a talented man, the story between NS Nguyen Vinh Tien and MC Dinh Tien Dung in the second issue of the recent Exit talk show directly mentioned post-divorce emotions, bringing a lot of deposition. and think for everyone.
Not only can you listen to the struggles of the insiders, the 40-minute conversation with NS Nguyen Vinh Tien in the talk show has revealed many tips on how to overcome the post-breakup crisis, along with an interesting view on marriage. from the perspective of a multi-talented, sentimental artist.
Musician Vinh Tien opens up about two broken marriages.
NS Nguyen Vinh Tien is known as a name associated with many hits such as Ba Toi, Drops of Suong Bay Len, Song Oi Don Chay or Cut Tien Duyen… As well as being a composer of contemporary folk music, he is also an artist. architects, painters, writers and poets. His architectural career also flourished with many big projects, including the project of restoring Quang Duc gate in Hue Imperial City.
With sincerity, he shared about the past love affairs in his life. The school age began with the love affair “village school”, which he described as “within 300 meters, but it was a very large world that changed me completely”. Referring to his first love, NS Vinh Tien was also honest: “I’m not handsome, so I can only flirt with knowledge.”
NS Vinh Tien said, his first marriage was extremely beautiful and romantic with an innocent 17-year-old girl, strong personality, regardless of life, sometimes bullying him. He became the first wife’s tutor to help her pass the university entrance exam. Thanks to that, he was the first father-in-law to agree to the love story of both. However, after 6 years of his first marriage, his first marriage stopped because he was too ambitious, set up a company, studied a master’s degree in French, and went to school. Doctoral French. Explaining this great ambition of his, NS Vinh Tien said he wanted to swim to the big sea to be a bridge for his 3 children in the future.
Facing the past, NS Nguyen Vinh Tien admitted: “My love affair stopped because my ambition at that time was getting bigger.” It was also because of this great ambition that both he and his marriage broke down. “When flying high, the pressure is not large enough, there will be a lack of oxygen. That ambition was successful, but only marriage failed. I was deprived of oxygen for myself and my marriage.” he confessed.
So in 2014 he got divorced, he couldn’t hold back his tears when he saw his second child crying “Dad, don’t leave each other, I just want to have you.” And 2 years later, when he went to France to continue his studies, he suffered a post-divorce crisis and lost his balance. For him, it was 2 years of his hell. He indulged in wine, bars and didn’t have any motivation. He was bewildered, didn’t know where to go, but stood in the middle of the road from home to the study room because it was all just a dark room that made him collapse.
“I called my mother and the doctor said, ‘Mom, now I can’t walk, I can’t go forward, I can’t go back. My marriage is falling apart, my future is also falling apart.” Mom told me, “Go home, I’m a perch that can’t try to live in salt water. You must return to the pond, to the atmosphere of the pond.” I went back to Hanoi and closed for a year because I didn’t know who to meet for what.”NS Vinh Tien confided.
2 years after the divorce, he was depressed.
It must be said that the story of NS Nguyen Vinh Tien is typical of the dilemma in marriage. Stuck between a small family and ever-growing career ambitions, finding a balance is not easy for anyone. Stepping out of the first marriage, NS Vinh Tien fell into crisis and torment. He runs away from reality but then feels powerless with his own choices.
The appearance of a “fresh” love in 2017 made him think that this was the “cure” of healing he was looking for. However, because he and his second wife came together to be responsible for the small life, not for the new love, at the age of 43, he still could not keep his second marriage.
The second breakup helped him have a clear view of his life. NS Vinh Tien opened his heart: “The exit is not love. The way out is love, children!”
Musicians hope for love at the threshold of U50.
Experiencing two marriages, having 4 very beloved children, NS Vinh Tien currently keeps optimism and hopes for good things in the future. He said “At this age, I no longer love a specific person but love the beauty of love.”. Although the blue arrow in the exit 2 has not been found until now, he still hopes for love at the threshold of U50.
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