Change yourself to hope to heal with your wife

Most of the comments advised me to get a divorce, in reality, I should do that, but I thought that the couple lived together for more than 10 years, now that my wife says goodbye and I nod, it’s too simple. Please tell me more so that you can better understand the problem and advise me.

When his wife was pregnant, once fainted, went to the doctor and said that was due to lack of calcium. At the time of giving birth, my wife had to have a caesarean section, stayed in the hospital for a week, and my mother-in-law took care of me. My indifference was that, when my wife gave birth, I didn’t ask if she was in pain, and I don’t remember for sure if I asked or not. When at the hospital, my wife fainted once, I went out on business, so my mother called to tell me and I replied: “It’s okay, it’s the same when I’m pregnant”. When my wife heard that sentence, she felt that I did not love her, and was hurt since then. That is indifference, not doing the husband’s responsibility as I said in the previous post.

>> My wife and I are so bored with each other that no one wants to leave

I still do housework, even taking care of my children, even more I can’t leave her alone when giving birth. Everything has been supported by my mother since before birth and has stayed with us until now. We both go to work, due to the nature of our work, we take care of the children and the housework with my mother. My wife does not have to worry, nor does she have to do any housework or food. Once my wife talked about divorce, I didn’t agree, she didn’t talk about it anymore, I don’t know if it’s a positive thing? My wife lives a very emotional life, that’s what I love the most, so I try to cling to it to hold on to you. Currently, we accept a one-year separation so that we can both look at ourselves.

I ask my wife for time to change myself and love you properly. If at that time my wife still does not accept, I will calmly accept all your decisions. Honestly, I still love my wife very much. I know I made a lot of mistakes, now I change myself, control my emotions, limit talking, only say what is necessary because I know that my wife is under a lot of pressure at work. As for privacy, I have agreed to not do anything to affect her joy, passion and right to make friends, let her be free for a while. I still take my children to school every day, come home to play with them at night, my grandmother takes care of the food and water, my wife doesn’t have to do anything. Thanks for all your advice.

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